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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it headed towards a relationship or just a booty call? |
| Anna_K |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2018, 10:44 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 802
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| I have a couple of concerns that might not have occurred to you. I would not say these are "dealbreakers" or "red flags" but maybe things to consider as time passes. First, 2.5 weeks is no time at all; if he is having you interact with his family so soon, I would call that movin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it headed towards a relationship or just a booty call? |
| Anna_K |
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Posted: 04 Apr 2018, 9:11 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 802
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| Sounds good, so far. A "booty call" means that a guy or a girl just wants sex----nothing else, really. After sex, people who do "booty calls" usually go their own separate ways. They don't usually "date," per se. Just make sure you're careful. Use condoms/diaphragms, w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it headed towards a relationship or just a booty call? |
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Posted: 04 Apr 2018, 11:10 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 802
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| Do you feel satisfied when you have sex with this person? Do you feel fulfillment? Do you like his company, otherwise? Yes, I do enjoy myself when I'm having sex with him. Outside of that we have good conversations, like the same things, and he just really gets me. The few times that we did have ac... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it headed towards a relationship or just a booty call? |
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Posted: 03 Apr 2018, 10:23 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 802
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| I hope you're not sad that you broke up with your boyfriend. I was initially not happy when it happened, but we didn't last long and now that I've healed emotionally and started going out on dates I realized theres better ppl out there and that he wasn't putting in the effort or giving me the thing... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it headed towards a relationship or just a booty call? |
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Posted: 03 Apr 2018, 4:41 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 802
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| Disclaimer: I posted in the last couple months about my bf but just a short update that we are no longer together as of February and I am seeing someone else now. I met him online initially, he started out with an icebreaker question and we talked online for a bit. After a short(not sexual) convo we... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What do Aspies think of "ghosting"? |
| Anna_K |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2018, 5:22 pm
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Replies: 35
Views: 1,978
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| I'm personally not into ghosting. I am the type of person who needs some sort of closure. If I'm in a relationship I deserve an explanation because if I don't have one then it leaves me lost and confused about what happened. Ghosting is an easy way out of having to explain your feelings and possibly... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Am I being too jealous/possessive? |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2017, 5:48 pm
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Replies: 2
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| I was casually texting my boyfriend last night and I asked him what he was doing. He told me that he just finished class and was chilling with a friend. I asked him who it was and he told me it was this girl that our friend Emily introduced to him. I got kinda suspicious. Why wouldn't he have told m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Will I ever get get to meet my boyfriends mom? |
| Anna_K |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2017, 5:19 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 692
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| UPDATE: His mom found out he has a girlfriend (idk if she knows its me) but hasn't said anything to him about it and I'm not sure if that is good or bad. We've been doing really well otherwise and I feel included everywhere else in his life like I mentioned in the original post in this thread. I've ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: depressed over a possible miscarriage? (trigger warning!!) |
| Anna_K |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2017, 9:52 pm
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Replies: 2
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| On Saturday the 9th at around 6 am I had really bad cramping, nausea and some dark bleeding. I also had chills and could barely walk. I assumed it was my normal period since I always get quite bad cramps, but it went on for a few hours and I later had bad muscle spasms in my pelvic area and felt sol... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Any Taekwondo aspies out there? |
| Anna_K |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2017, 8:46 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 3,325
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| I started Taekwondo when I was 11 and I found it to be one of my best strengths. It helped me develop a love for exercise and staying in shape. I'm currently taking time off to finish school but planning on continuing and getting my 2nd dan black belt after I graduate college. |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Being a Woman in Autism Support Groups |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2017, 2:25 pm
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Replies: 10
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| I know exactly what you mean. I went to one of those at my college one time, was the only girl there. The whole time they talked about video games and other things I had no interest in, it was really awkward in general. Being the only girl there I got a lot of (unwanted) attention and they all wante... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: When both partners have Asperger’s |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2017, 5:29 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,026
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| I've never officially dated anyone on the spectrum although I've had guys with AS/autism interested in me before and it didn't go well. I got to know them a bit and they seemed like very sweet guys, but didn't feel like I shared any common interests with them, therefore didn't really develop a conne... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Will I ever get get to meet my boyfriends mom? |
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Posted: 06 Nov 2017, 9:43 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 692
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| I would wait until he brings it up. If you bring it up, he might feel you are pressuring him. I'm curious: what part of Africa does he come from, or his family? I'm only asking out of curiosity. For some reason, I'm thinking Ethiopia--because of Coptic Christianity. I'm glad he treats you well. Wha... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Will I ever get get to meet my boyfriends mom? |
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Posted: 05 Nov 2017, 3:48 pm
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Replies: 7
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| I recently began dating one of my best friends of 6 years. The chemistry has been there for awhile but after other failed relationships, we realized that we had feelings for each other and decided to give it a go. He treats me way better then anyone else I've ever dated. He takes me out, texts me ev... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Former classmate invited himself to my birthday party |
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Posted: 30 Jul 2017, 10:44 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 739
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| I let my friends know the other day not to tell him or anyone else who wasn't invited the address. He is under the impression that everyone from our school(my now former school since I graduated this year) is going to be there. He also thinks that everyone is going to be drinking but we are all unde... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Former classmate invited himself to my birthday party |
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Posted: 29 Jul 2017, 11:56 am
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Replies: 10
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| There's a guy who was in my class this year, we've talked a bit but we aren't close. We message sometimes on an acquaintance level. He asked about what I'm doing for my birthday over text and I accidentally let it slip that I'm having a party. He automatically asked if he could come. I told him that... |
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