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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Female Aspies= Borderline personality disorder?? |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2012, 11:50 am
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Replies: 150
Views: 28,117
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| By talking to other people with Aspergers I have realized that most of the girls who are diagnosed later in life are first diagnosed with Borderline personality disorder, including myself. Personally the only thing I could think of that would lead to that diagnosis would be my meltdowns that tended... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Would you suggest a job/field I might enjoy? |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2012, 11:18 am
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Replies: 10
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| Lots of good suggestions. Do you like working around a lot of people, with people at all? Or something solitary? Indoors or outdoors? City or country? What kind of climate do you prefer? I mean, if you're going to pick something, try to look at the whole picture. Where do you want to live and spend ... |
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Forum: Stats Topic: Do you get compliments about your eyes? |
| unduki |
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Posted: 06 Sep 2012, 7:21 pm
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Replies: 38
Views: 22,120
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| when i was a young man i was often told that i had "bedroom eyes." but i never figured out just what that meant. :huh: I think it means, your eyes look like they're saying, "come, and have sex with me" :S well well well :lol: if that is the case, it is apparent that my eyes lacked the proper persua... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie women and wanting children |
| unduki |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2012, 8:05 pm
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Replies: 54
Views: 7,271
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| I had a dream last night that I had a baby and I didn't know what I was doing and tried everything that I knew but still felt really weird about it. I breast fed the baby and my mum was gushing but I was looking down at the scene really weirded out and the baby's mouth kept slipping off. Everything... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Do you call people out? |
| unduki |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2012, 8:00 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 3,712
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| I have a tendency to call people out when they lie to me. Women in particular hate that. Probably a good reason I am still single too. When I do call people out on lies, they will likely try and justify it for whatever reason they want. Some might tell me that I could not handle the truth. Yeah, be... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Do you call people out? |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2012, 7:57 pm
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Replies: 13
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| In the desert? Without more information, I'll guess Mexicans or white tweakers. Since they don't sound paranoid about their activities (or lack thereof), I'm guessing Mexicans. You can legally defend your chickens and yourself from the dogs using deadly force if needed. Check local laws and city or... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Do you call people out? |
| unduki |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2012, 7:52 pm
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Replies: 13
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| Yes, I will do this. If someone is doing something wrong, then it is only right that it is brought to their attention or to the attention of the relevant authorities. I like to play 'by the rules' and I expect the same of others. I know that it doesn't make me popular, but I do not care much about ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Do you call people out? |
| unduki |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2012, 12:33 pm
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Replies: 13
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| People hate me for this. When I see someone doing something they shouldn't, I tattle. LOL Tattling is basically what it is. I got in trouble for it when I was a kid and tried to not tell on people, but then I got into politics... When I see someone abusing the system for personal gain, I call them o... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are you hypersensitive to slights or rejection? |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2012, 12:16 pm
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Replies: 44
Views: 6,441
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| Rejection is tough. It's like people are telling me I don't have the right to exist - - that is until they need something from me. It makes me feel worse than poop. I expect it from my kids but not from other adults. There's this whole set of complicated rules that everyone else lives by but no one ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie women and wanting children |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2012, 10:48 am
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Replies: 54
Views: 7,271
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| Well, it's a fact that the teen birth rate is down in the US. Teen abortion is down. It seems that many teens of today (or their parents...) are doing something right. I don't think it wise to discount hormones. Maybe some might not be so affected, but it's like everything; some people are more sens... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why is cleaning the hardest thing in the entire universe? |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2012, 1:07 am
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Replies: 30
Views: 2,855
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| Cleaning is never done so it lacks a sense of accomplishment. I have strong resentments tied to cleaning. I don't mind cleaning for myself, but because I was born without man parts, I have been automatically assigned as responsible for all cleaning and household upkeep - proclivities aside. (I'm not... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are you hypersensitive to slights or rejection? |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2012, 12:55 am
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Replies: 44
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| I tend to get all amped up about this kind of thing and overreact. It's something I've been working on for a long time. Sometimes I get depressed but I'm much better at getting out of depression than I am at calming down from a rage. High blood pressure is the consequence. You know it's bad when you... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: being ugly |
| unduki |
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Posted: 16 Aug 2012, 2:34 pm
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Replies: 101
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| You are so hard on yourself, love. Don't let the words of unkind people affect your perception of yourself. I can assure you you have a gorgeous face and a wonderful mind. Don't waste it's capabilities with self-loathing! You really are a great and generous person. I also think DiscardedWhisper did... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Would you describe your life as happy or sad? |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2012, 11:36 pm
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Replies: 65
Views: 13,297
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| I experience life as kind of bittersweet. I can get prolonged dark mood spells, and after that, I'll be happy again for a while. This, except my dark spells are short. I don't like to waste my precious time dwelling on things I can't change so I force myself happy. This is my life, the only one I'm... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you have a captain's chair? |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2012, 11:28 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,271
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie women and wanting children |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2012, 11:24 pm
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Replies: 54
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| Kids? Me? HELL TO THE NO!! !! Who the f**k said that all women must procreate? And who decided you have to have more than one? I like your attitude but it's not just societal. It's all built in with the hormones; powerful stuff. If you don't feel like it, lucky you. I'm sure if more women were able... |
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