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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Is it OK to have a crush on a YouTuber if you're in a relati |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2020, 5:03 am
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| I'm in that situation myself. However I developed the crush when I was single & very lonely. My crush on Miranda went away when I got in my 2nd relationship but came back when that relationship ended after half a year. It went away again when I got in my current relationship but came back withi... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: What Happens When We Die? |
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Posted: 16 Jul 2020, 11:04 am
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Replies: 173
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| Why do people more often wonder what's happening after death but not what happened before birth or "consciousness"? I would be much interested in being able to trace back the moment I first felt a concept of "I" since my body came into existence. What did the birth of the ego fee... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Neurotypicals have it made |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2020, 8:40 am
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Replies: 25
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| The social distancing thing for example is creating unhappiness of such a degree in some NTs that it makes some of them suicidal Social distancing has affected me (an Aspie) the same way it's affected a lot of NTs. yeah, I should have added this was not really talking about individual human's exper... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Post a book you're reading |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2020, 6:59 am
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| Sula by Toni Morrison as part of the curriculum for my summer class. Before the term began, I never heard of Toni Morrison, but afterwards when I began reading Sula , I knew for a fact that Sula is indeed a very well-written book that was worthy of its literary award wins. I haven't heard of her un... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Height in cm-100? |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2020, 4:39 am
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| No, I would have to gain more than 10 kg if that were true, which wouldn't look good on me. I would be chubby. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Regional Meetup & Networking Thread Index |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2020, 4:34 am
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Replies: 191
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Jakki wrote: am told he carried a pretty rare gene , oddly a dominant redhair gene
A dominant red hair gene?
Wish I had red hair. Red and black are the most beautiful hair colors imo. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Neurotypicals have it made |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2020, 1:28 am
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| @ OP: Did you notice how easily NTs can suffer too just because of their neurotype? The social distancing thing for example is creating unhappiness of such a degree in some NTs that it makes some of them suicidal. I don't want to be like that and I'm happy that I'm independent and the things that gi... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: MTHFR mutation |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2020, 9:42 am
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Replies: 3
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| https://blog.23andme.com/health-traits/our-take-on-the-mthfr-gene/ Some websites have spread the idea that having one or two copies of an MTHFR variant can lead to dozens of negative health consequences. There are a couple problems with this claim. First, it’s unlikely that variants in a single gene... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Theory of mind |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2020, 3:26 am
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Replies: 47
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| Not really once you have to work and to spent your time for getting money. That's why time is money. As you are describing it those things are alternatives, not the same thing. Since you're not writing this during your working hours but during your free time the opportunity cost of you writing this... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Theory of mind |
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Posted: 11 Jul 2020, 5:32 am
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Replies: 47
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| You mean I should have used duration instead time because you thought it being one but your are unable to limit your explanations to just this. Time is money honey and nothing to wast it. But it's nice that you are caring as much about me being perfect. :roll: I guess it's kind of an expression of ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Theory of mind |
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Posted: 11 Jul 2020, 2:46 am
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| OK - you are totally wrong. Time is usually measured by counting the oscillations of an oscillator that has a constant frequency. Nearly all modern clocks are nothing but time counters. Even atomic clocks. :wink: :mrgreen: You don't seem to get it. I have even posted this link in my post: https://w... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: brain research on communication and social interaction |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2020, 5:35 pm
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Replies: 10
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| I have read the instructions, and still can't imagine the task, nor do I have a friend to invite. To me, the invitation is not to beat a score, but to blunder around like a blind fool. Hi Dear_one, you're more than welcome to give it a try. Yes, since the game is new, some coordination will be need... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Theory of mind |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2020, 5:24 pm
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| not a time. Fair enough. But it feels wrong to read it is not " a time"... Units of time would be countable and you could say "a light year is not a unit of time", but "it's not a time" makes no sense here because you're not able to count time, so using the article &qu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Theory of mind |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2020, 1:16 pm
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| Lots of people run lists through their heads about what they are doing, going to do etc. Like to do lists? How much time of their waking hours do humans think about stuff they need to do though? 5% would already be a generous guess I suppose. During the remaining time they are still thinking, but n... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What social interaction would make you happiest? |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2020, 2:03 am
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Replies: 14
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| Gift is a sincere sign of appreciation. Not a sense of owing hmm ok. Because you wrote the gift is received after having displayed a certain heroic behaviour toward someone in a weaker position, it made it seem like the gift was given by the rescued person because of a sense of owing something (per... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Alternatives to 'traditional' employment |
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Posted: 09 Jul 2020, 7:33 am
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Replies: 24
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| Hi all, Just a question I wanted to ask fellow aspies here regarding working. Those of you who found employment of any traditional kind full time or part time, difficult or impossible to sustain in the long run for whatever reasons, what do you do for an occupation instead? I am also wondering. I t... |
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