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 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Is it creepy?

 Post subject: Re: Is it creepy?
Posted: 14 Feb 2013, 5:27 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 2,211


For a single guy to join a Meetup group/large university class for salsa dance/any dance lessons without bringing a girl along (because it seems like he is deliberately trying to hook up -- which I'm not. I'm actually trying to do it for body awareness/NVLD). Just not sure. Some might wonder, but w...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: work and communication

 Post subject: Re: work and communication
Posted: 14 Feb 2013, 5:20 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 1,053


Does anyone else have experience with an expectation that because you have email you check it off work hours. I work as a IT administrator, I understand my bosses need for me to be available however, I struggle to be as available as my coworkers expect. I regularly forget to keep my phone charged, ...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: How did you find work?

Posted: 14 Feb 2013, 5:09 pm 

Replies: 21
Views: 7,360


I was fortunate, I suppose, in the Louis Pasteur sense: "chance favors the prepared mind." I'm not particularly likeable, but I can try to simulate a normal human being enough to do customer service stuff, if I'm not doing it for too many years. That's the preparation bit I suppose. The chance bit i...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Need some advice (long post)

Posted: 14 Feb 2013, 5:01 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 1,185


Second what @Marcia said, there are other sites like meetup.com that could work. I'm making the assumption you live in Scotland based on profile information. Do you happen to already live in a primary city, like Glasgow, Edinburgh, maybe even Inverness? If not, any chance that transport to one is re...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Lock and Key Events

Posted: 14 Feb 2013, 4:43 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 2,416


And then what.. are you obligated to go on a date with them or something? I mean I could see my luck now.. I'd wind up getting the combo with the 1 girl in the whole place I didn't like physically or something... I'm guessing that the lock and key thing is sort-of a gimmick to have people going aro...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Apathy, desperation, and writing

Posted: 14 Feb 2013, 3:48 pm 

Replies: 29
Views: 2,858


I'm a bit confused though. I do happen to think I am a bad person, but I don't think I expressed that in this particular post. Mainly, people don't care about the things I care about the same way I don't care about the things they care about. It's a rare event finding a kindred spirit (at least for...

 Forum: Art, Writing, and Music   Topic: Listening to the same song on a loop...

Posted: 13 Feb 2013, 5:20 pm 

Replies: 26
Views: 6,125


I've done that on occasion with tunes I really got into, for perhaps a few hours or so on end. I've also done that with a few specific songs where the novelty has worn off but it's useful to provide a steady beat to doing work; all 4 of these have steady, unvarying tempos. I can't say I've played an...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Never initiates phone calls?

Posted: 13 Feb 2013, 5:05 pm 

Replies: 44
Views: 5,124


I'm not a girl, but I am the same way- I just do not call people. It simply almost never enters my brain to do so. And when it does, it's at inopportune times. ^ this, mostly. I've mentioned in other messages that it literally doesn't occur to me to get in touch with people; I just don't seem to mi...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How to tell if if she wants to be friends or more

Posted: 13 Feb 2013, 4:52 pm 

Replies: 13
Views: 1,770


i am assuming almost all the time, women (sometimes men for that matter)who express any interest in talking to me are attracted to me. how to tell if someone is being friendly as a romantic interest or wants to be your platonic friend. this would so much improve my social life if anyone can give a ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Help

 Post subject: Re: Help
Posted: 13 Feb 2013, 2:53 pm 

Replies: 30
Views: 2,931


I feel like im in hell. Sometimes it feels like I continue each day so I can give Satan the finger as I go unconscious. No one cares. I'm worthless Nope, and nope. it's all hopeless. Life is a slap in the face. Everthing is torture. Someone please help me. I want to die. ... I think I'm relatively ...

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: What are you eating?/Last thing you ate?

Posted: 13 Feb 2013, 2:18 pm 

Replies: 19,215
Views: 793,076


sushi, more-or-less.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Ignoring that feeling

Posted: 12 Feb 2013, 4:55 pm 

Replies: 5
Views: 902


I probably will try a little bit of each. After being on chat roulette today I found myself falling for a 15 year old after not giving out contact info to her. Point being I'm out of my mind. I'm not usually like this. I instinctively made the right decision to not make the wrong one and take advan...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How do I say it without saying it?

Posted: 12 Feb 2013, 4:50 pm 

Replies: 49
Views: 4,633


If you have not tried sitting her down and asking her what is up, so that you know what exactly is going on and she has spoken aloud [1] what she thinks is up , that might be step 1. If... she is the sort to deflect this kind of situation and play mind games... you may have a deeper problem. Like, a...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I seriously want to end my life right now too

Posted: 11 Feb 2013, 6:01 pm 

Replies: 13
Views: 2,264


Thanks for all your replies anyway. I still want to end my life, but I haven't got the guts to, and I can't bear the thought of causing major upset for my family. For what it's worth, I don't think your immediate family are the only ones who would be upset and saddened to hear that you had hurt you...

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: here what I look like and sound like

Posted: 21 Nov 2012, 1:07 pm 

Replies: 18
Views: 1,822


Well, in your video you may seem a bit intense [1] or twitchy [2] but I'm chalking that up to the fact that you're speaking into a camera rather than to a person. [1] It's loaded given this is a recording, but you seem to have an intense gaze. [2] The way you move your head and emote in concert with...

 Forum: News and Current Events   Topic: San Francisco bans public nudity

Posted: 21 Nov 2012, 11:25 am 

Replies: 46
Views: 7,193


You get used to it.
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