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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2023, 12:58 pm
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| Having a car and job hasn’t helped me and I’m the same age as TGI, so I’m not sure I agree with Mona here. Having a car and a job helped your prospects as it did the OP's. I suspect 100% of the women here would prefer a partner with a car and a job than one without both. We can all agree that havin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2023, 12:05 pm
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| ya, people are entitled to their mindset, but i know i wouldn't mind coming back being born a woman in the next life so that way, all i have to do is just simply breathe and exist and i'm guaranteed options, attention from males, due to for all time, women have always had the luxury of being on the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2023, 12:45 am
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| ya, people are entitled to their mindset, but i know i wouldn't mind coming back being born a woman in the next life so that way, all i have to do is just simply breathe and exist and i'm guaranteed options, attention from males, due to for all time, women have always had the luxury of being on the... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Seriously, why is there so much Misogyny on WrongPlanet?! |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2023, 12:13 am
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| I'll start by clarifying that I understand you're a good person with good intentions. Perhaps I worded that a little clumsily. I didn't mean it should all be in its own subforum away from L&D. Of course your struggles are relevant to L&D and for a lot of autistic men (and women ... and peopl... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Seriously, why is there so much Misogyny on WrongPlanet?! |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 27 Mar 2023, 1:08 pm
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| Ideally I think all the "I can't get a date with a woman" threads should be combined into one area As someone who would be affected by this potential change, I don't like this idea at all. Putting our threads behind an extra subfolder can only decrease their visibility. Why? It's kind of ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2023, 3:00 pm
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| At least, not while I'm dealing with the confidence and self-esteem issues that I am. It seems like you are in a vicious circle: You can't get a date because you have low self- confidence, and you have low self-confidence because you can't get a date. Probably the best way to break this would be to... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2023, 7:19 am
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| I can't believe there aren't any women who wouldn't be interested in simple companionship with you. I have lost track. Is your area small in population? I live in a major city. Are you a bit of a book worm? Are there book clubs in your area? I'm not too into books. Occasionally I'll seek out non-fi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2023, 6:06 am
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| As he has explained numerous times, while he does understand that obtaining "a driving licence and semi-decent job" would indeed make it much less difficult for him to find a girlfriend, his loneliness robs him of the emotional energy to do those things. In all honesty, I'm not convinced ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2023, 11:04 pm
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| Indeed, do NOT mention suicide. Dunno what kind of mandatory reporting laws you have in Australia, but, here in the U.S.A. at least, mentioning suicide to a mental health professional is likely to result in involuntary commitment to a mental hospital. I've mentioned my suicidality to several mental... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2023, 3:25 pm
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| I went back and read your posts on this thread to get a better idea of you and your situation. You are 26, or maybe 27 by now. It is not hopeless at that age. I didn't get my first girlfriend until I was 29, so anything is possible. I know all about missing out on high school romance, college roman... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2023, 9:15 pm
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| I can't handle never having dated while I'm surrounded by people who have dated. Being a have-not in a world of haves makes me want to kill myself. I'm not accepting it under any circumstances Then what choices do you really have? I certainly understand your frustration and I have been there myself... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2023, 12:16 pm
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| Have you heard of the book "The Menu" by Aaron Cleary? It might be worth checking out. No, but I'm not open to living a life without getting to have a girlfriend and the experiences that come with that relationship. The nature of my issues isn't not having someone to get married to. It's ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2023, 11:31 am
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Replies: 401
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| I'm trapped in a predicament I see no way out of. I've had it wanting to be able to date,.wanting romantic companionship, wanting validation as a heterosexual man, and having to suffer without any of it, without the ability to get any of it, and without any reason to believe I won't continue to suff... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 60% of men are single but only 34% of women are so… |
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Posted: 03 Mar 2023, 1:40 am
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Sweetleaf wrote: but what is to say those 60% or men are deserving of a gf.
What must men be or do to be deserving of a gf in your view? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 28 Feb 2023, 10:28 am
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Replies: 401
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| I'm wondering whether it's best that I retire my account here. All I'm really doing is sharing my misery, and I haven't been considerate of the effect my undistilled honesty might have on people's triggers. I rarely post about anything other than my dating issues, so I'm not being a good site contri... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 27 Feb 2023, 4:07 am
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| Either I'll find a way to fill the romantic void in my life and be in a better position to continue progressing, or I'll be forced to take my own life to escape the pain I'm in. Given that the intensity of your unfulfilled desires has you caught in a vicious circle, impelling you to take a cart-bef... |
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