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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Stats Thread. Let's collect DATA! |
specialsauce |
Posted: 05 Oct 2020, 4:34 am
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I dont go around saying 'oh thousands of years ago something bad happened to a man and now thats why im pissed' no, im pissed because something bad is happening to me, right now. its very different to 'womens issues' which is where you imagine a hypothetical woman getting abused a million years ago,... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Stats Thread. Let's collect DATA! |
specialsauce |
Posted: 05 Oct 2020, 4:26 am
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this thread makes me sad. so easy to get married when all you have to do is sit around and wait for a proposal you actually want. :roll: if i proposed to marry someone they would pepper spray me and call the police. and im not even a bum. i dress well and have nice stuff. my aspie symptoms are cree... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Stats Thread. Let's collect DATA! |
specialsauce |
Posted: 05 Oct 2020, 4:11 am
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Replies: 48 Views: 2,625
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this thread makes me sad. so easy to get married when all you have to do is sit around and wait for a proposal you actually want. :roll: if i proposed to marry someone they would pepper spray me and call the police. and im not even a bum. i dress well and have nice stuff. my aspie symptoms are creep... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: all uk infowarriors need to sign this government petition |
specialsauce |
Posted: 31 Aug 2020, 6:32 pm
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Replies: 1 Views: 317
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Prevent any restrictions on those who refuse a Covid-19 vaccination I want the Government to prevent any restrictions being placed on those who refuse to have any potential Covid-19 vaccine. This includes restrictions on travel, social events, such as concerts or sports. No restrictions whatsoever. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: autistic music |
specialsauce |
Posted: 17 Jul 2020, 8:44 pm
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Replies: 10 Views: 445
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usagibryan wrote: I like it, but what makes it "autistic"?
I'm not sure.
Was Gary Numan autistic? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: autistic music |
specialsauce |
Posted: 17 Jul 2020, 8:26 pm
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Replies: 10 Views: 445
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Feeling lower than ever before. |
specialsauce |
Posted: 11 Jun 2020, 1:25 pm
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Replies: 31 Views: 1,164
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I wish I could go back to how I was earlier in the year before COVID came along and messed up everything. I didn’t know I could feel any lower than I do now. Ever since April, I have been spiraling downward deeper to depths mentally I have never been before. I can’t sleep without medication now sin... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: scale of -10 to +10, how do you feel right now? |
specialsauce |
Posted: 11 Jun 2020, 1:19 pm
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Replies: 35,379 Views: 1,877,486
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0 yes I am very stressed from my home situation which could go either way to -10 or back up to +something I dont know atm which it will be. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why do narcissists always want you to dump your family? |
specialsauce |
Posted: 11 Jun 2020, 1:11 pm
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Replies: 12 Views: 443
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Why do narcissists always want you to dump your family? So they have no one with whom to compete for your attention and/or affection. Stand up to a narcissist and he or she will eventually dump you to seek out a more pliable victim. Now the question is, "Why do certain people seem to attract ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why do narcissists always want you to dump your family? |
specialsauce |
Posted: 10 Jun 2020, 1:11 pm
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Replies: 12 Views: 443
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I don't like to throw around terms like narcissism lightly but my last two relationships involved people telling me my family must be no good and they must have screwed me up and I shouldnt talk to them. When these same people want something from me and are manipulating me, this is 1 massive red fla... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: How do you not obsess when you scratch something you love? |
specialsauce |
Posted: 07 Jun 2020, 5:26 pm
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Replies: 9 Views: 280
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Some good input. Diversion is a good idea. Then in time you accept it. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: How do you not obsess when you scratch something you love? |
specialsauce |
Posted: 07 Jun 2020, 6:09 am
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Replies: 9 Views: 280
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Let's say you have some posession you really love like a car, a phone, a tv, or whatever, and you put a sratch in it. Do you obsess about that? In my case I will obsess over any damage I do to me or my landlords property. But I just put a scratch on my PC screen, which is a 0.3 inch scratch near the... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Sex education! |
specialsauce |
Posted: 05 Jun 2020, 6:38 pm
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Replies: 31 Views: 428
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But my question is though do you think that behind the scenes there was a lot of concern and between my parents/teachers about me receiving sex education because of my disability? Nah. When I was in school the teachers had to give those classes to hundreds of students, I went to a fairly diverse sc... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can I open up? |
specialsauce |
Posted: 05 Jun 2020, 6:32 pm
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Replies: 8 Views: 748
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Notice when you have a resistance to telling her something or responding to her and ask yourself in that moment if there is a way you can respond . example: she asks a question you dont feel comfortable answering. Do you say ' I dont feel comfortable because...' or do you go distant or change the to... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ending up with nothing after a night out? |
specialsauce |
Posted: 05 Jun 2020, 6:22 pm
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Replies: 23 Views: 1,043
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Yeah the reason you dont wake up in a woman's bed and not remember what happened is because thats not possible. Its down to the man to make the first move and that means making most of the logistical decisions and that means you know whats going on and your short term memory is working at least. You... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I feel like it's over for Aspie men when it comes to dating |
specialsauce |
Posted: 05 Jun 2020, 5:59 pm
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Replies: 65 Views: 4,533
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Yes its pointless, Im a highly skilled and highly paid knowledge worker, I am the only one at my company (full of very high functioning people) who is even single. But despite my skill and achievement, if ever I try to ask out a girl, if ever I try to find a date, I am told that I must endlessly jus... |
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