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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Toxic Masculinty |
| Antharis |
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Posted: 18 Apr 2015, 6:00 pm
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Replies: 311
Views: 9,442
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| I have all kinds of difficulty believing that the average Joe who has spent a majority of their existence enjoying human comforts, having their lives made easy by human devices, with food and clothing (clothing? Lol) from human systems and constructs, and who has no intention of assuming a feral lif... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to choose between two girls? |
| Antharis |
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Posted: 18 Apr 2015, 2:12 pm
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Replies: 93
Views: 2,830
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. . . wat . . ?
Wow. Boo I wish I could laugh too.
Is this innocence? I think I just learned a new, eldritch and utterly horrifying version of innocence. (or a rather advanced form of trolling)
Go back to your ex ASAP. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Toxic Masculinty |
| Antharis |
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Posted: 18 Apr 2015, 2:02 pm
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Replies: 311
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| ^ Women are using these terms too: http://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=279566&start=105 It's also so commonly used by young women in some online communities....anyway, they never answer my question of what defines an alpha male. I imagined as much, luckily I have an even easier time s... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Disturbing Fetish Making Me Anxious |
| Antharis |
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Posted: 18 Apr 2015, 1:56 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 204
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You can train yourself to eliminate or diminish the gag reflex, or opt to try it without eating beforehand.
But the gag reflex is just like the blinking reflex, it's protection. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: At what age you lost you virginity? |
| Antharis |
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Posted: 18 Apr 2015, 4:04 am
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Replies: 162
Views: 4,032
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| 24. I was in a stable relationship and we'd explored enough for me to just want to get it out of the way. This was the most fulfilling relationship I've ever had, we weren't fully compatible (lots of squabbling) but even now I still miss this person, I wouldn't have left them if they hadn't turned t... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: do you get jealous when friends or people you know have kids |
| Antharis |
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Posted: 18 Apr 2015, 3:48 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 94
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| Friends of mine are now starting to have kids. I ...honestly have a hard time feeling anything at all about it. If anything it makes me much more aware that I'm an adult heading for old age. Used to worry about dying childless, but now I'm not too sure I'd be happy raising children. It would ultimat... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Free the Nipple movement |
| Antharis |
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Posted: 18 Apr 2015, 3:43 am
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Replies: 33
Views: 333
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| Getting Women to make themselves look ridiculous and reinforce the stereotype that the only use Women have revolve around their sexuality. ^This. I find the notion of eliminating the association of gonads with sex to be rather unrealistic. If it happens, it would take centuries, and in that meantim... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Toxic Masculinty |
| Antharis |
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Posted: 17 Apr 2015, 11:55 pm
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Replies: 311
Views: 9,442
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| Hearing about alphas and betas is always entertaining. If a grown human male being wants to use animal behaviour or comic book caricatures to guide his own actions and beliefs, I'll be all too happy to treat him as what he wants to emulate. And almost invariably that involves avoiding him like the p... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: OCD and Relationships/Breakups |
| Antharis |
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Posted: 17 Apr 2015, 11:38 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 824
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| If you decide not to go on meds, something that would help in this particular case is to focus on the fact that she broke up with you and not the way around. There is absolutely nothing to be done if the other person is the breaker, it's dead. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Afraid of being alone forever? |
| Antharis |
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Posted: 17 Apr 2015, 11:32 pm
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Replies: 278
Views: 13,781
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| When I invite people to do things, they NEVER DO THEM. What kind of things do you tend to invite them to do? When I approach people, they NEVER want to initiate ANYTHING. I'm tired of doing all the work in any kind of relationship. I thought this kind of stuff was a two way street. I'm so damn tire... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Too much love will kill you, just as sure as none at all |
| Antharis |
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Posted: 17 Apr 2015, 4:13 pm
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Replies: 34
Views: 1,880
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| Just take care not to make broad hitting or absolute predictions about things you have no way of knowing. Aspies do that a lot and it may create a self fulfilling prophecy. Stay as objective as possible. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Too much love will kill you, just as sure as none at all |
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Posted: 17 Apr 2015, 3:56 pm
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Replies: 34
Views: 1,880
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You're talking about being resigned to die alone, and lowering your standards....at 19 years old.
XD. I'm not saying you shouldn't put thought into it, but do keep in mind you have more time than you ...seem to believe? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Could mere boredom have been the cause? |
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Posted: 17 Apr 2015, 3:37 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 631
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| From my angle, it looks like garden variety incompatibility. His frustrations don't seem like things worth leaving someone over anyway so even if you hadn't frustrated him with what you mentioned, there would've been other inconsequential things he'd get super mad over. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Moving in with my girlfriend... And I'm nervous. |
| Antharis |
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Posted: 16 Apr 2015, 4:10 am
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Replies: 24
Views: 2,843
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| If you've been SERIOUSLY dating, you know you're ready for marriage after 3 months. Don't drag it out. What's the rush? If your intention is to marry, one year or two should be peanuts. You have a lifetime ahead of you. Give it another year MAX so you can get affairs in order--like paying off debt/... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Stood up for myself against the game players! |
| Antharis |
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Posted: 16 Apr 2015, 3:31 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 1,737
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| So 4 days is too soon for a text? How long does it take to text something like "Sorry I've been busy, something came up, will be scarce for the next [x amount of time], will explain later"? It's something you could easily do while waiting for a meal to microwave, or during a commercial bre... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to choose between two girls? |
| Antharis |
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Posted: 16 Apr 2015, 3:04 am
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Replies: 93
Views: 2,830
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| Retro, your ex became your ex for a reason, keep this in mind. I don't think you need one extra voice telling you that she doesn't sound like anyone you should even be in touch with. As for girl #2 I kind of feel bad for her. She probably just sees you as a pleasant friend and you're making all of t... |
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