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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Getting a Girlfriend Seems Too Far Away |
| Fireblossom |
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Posted: 29 Oct 2017, 6:44 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 1,198
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| Why it's always about what a guy can "offer"? What else could it be about? In order for a person to choose you over someone else there has to be something about you that makes you a better choice than other people to that one person. That something is the thing you "offer." It c... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Getting a Girlfriend Seems Too Far Away |
| Fireblossom |
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Posted: 29 Oct 2017, 4:26 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 1,198
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| Good news is that you're still very young; in some countries 21 is barely an adult after all. You have time. So your biggest problems at the moment, aside from not having a girlfriend, are overweight, being unemployed and the fact that you still live with your mom, right? Those may seem like very bi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ladies and Gents: what are you physical standards? |
| Fireblossom |
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Posted: 28 Oct 2017, 1:03 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 1,964
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| don't give it much thought. i noticed most of those i have been attracted to have had brown hair but whether i deliberately search for it, or it's just a coincidence that brunettes have been nice to me, i wouldn't know. very rarely have i been attracted to someone younger than me, but that inevitab... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie women why do you defend all women? |
| Fireblossom |
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Posted: 28 Oct 2017, 12:14 pm
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Replies: 172
Views: 4,608
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| My food budget is $90 a month. How!! !? How can you eat only $90 per month? I spend more than that on food in 3 days! It's barely enough to take a girl out on a nice date. What is your dating budget per month? Whatever it is you should increase it. Show the girl a good time and she may want a follo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ladies and Gents: what are you physical standards? |
| Fireblossom |
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Posted: 28 Oct 2017, 10:38 am
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Replies: 45
Views: 1,964
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| Aside from the man being very overweight I can't think of anything about appearance that would be a complete deal breaker, but if we're talking about the ideal appearance of a partner then mine would be something like this: - Hair longer than guys usually have, preferably black and not curly. - Norm... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: My only friend is busy hanging out with his other friends |
| Fireblossom |
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Posted: 28 Oct 2017, 10:17 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 518
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| Well you could try to make new friends, but if that seems too hard or you want results sooner, then you could try to hang out with this friend of yours and his new friends. If you don't understand what they're talking about, try to find out about those things so that you too can take part in the con... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anybody Live Independently? |
| Fireblossom |
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Posted: 27 Oct 2017, 9:49 am
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Replies: 49
Views: 2,880
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| I think I'm allowed to say that I do... I graduated at the age of 18 and half, so a month after that I moved out of my parents' house since even if I were to find a job I wouldn't have been able to go there if I lived at my childhood home since there's no public tranportation there and I can't get a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I start feeling less bitter? |
| Fireblossom |
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Posted: 25 Oct 2017, 5:24 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,003
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| Also, is it really so bad if a guy wants a girl who has certain looks and is above him in that department? It's not bad to want that, but you should keep in mind that the women who you consider to be above you in looks might have the same thing in mind and want a guy who is above them. This kind of... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What do I need to do differently (reboot) |
| Fireblossom |
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Posted: 21 Oct 2017, 6:22 am
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Replies: 191
Views: 5,985
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| Just a thought, but do you think it would be easier for you to find new friends than it is to find a girlfriend? If so then try focusing on that for a while; if you can make new friends then it could help you with finding a girlfriend in long term. They could introduce you to a girl they know or you... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Being yourself or following the crowd? |
| Fireblossom |
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Posted: 21 Oct 2017, 5:45 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 490
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| I think that what "be yourself" means depends on who says it and when. Some might just want to encourage people with it without really meaning anything, some might be trying to tell a shy person to not try so hard to appear... not shy? And some might mean that don't pretend to be intereste... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What do you hate touching? |
| Fireblossom |
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Posted: 21 Oct 2017, 5:34 am
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Replies: 36
Views: 1,388
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| Certain kinds of fabrics, sandpaper and... that might actually be it; I don't have nearly as much trouble with these kind of things as I used to. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is it cyberbullying? |
| Fireblossom |
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Posted: 20 Oct 2017, 5:47 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 402
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| What makes me feel uncomfortable is that the first post was my experience of being sexual harassed in a meeting, and the first guy replied that "I'm not touching you or anything". For me, it really sounds like insulting. I don't know if I over react but it is not cool at all. Now that you... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do other guys have the freedom of choice but I don't? |
| Fireblossom |
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Posted: 19 Oct 2017, 4:08 am
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Replies: 34
Views: 2,508
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| I advise men very strongly to never reveal it, and if you start living with your partner, delete your internet history on all devices, and if you must just browse WP in incognito mode when you're alone. Out of curiosity: why just men? Do you think women with AS shouldn't do it? If so, what is the d... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: How to deal with an angry classmate? |
| Fireblossom |
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Posted: 19 Oct 2017, 3:12 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 935
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| Sounds like she's just mean because she has something against you, but then again it is also possible that she is socially clumsy, wants attention or something and in her eyes you tend to get in the way of her getting attention... I mean you did say that the class you're in deals a lot with communic... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is it cyberbullying? |
| Fireblossom |
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Posted: 19 Oct 2017, 3:05 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 402
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| The first guy might have meant well; he just might be the kind of person who finds correct grammar really important. But the other two... well, I can't think of any other reason to do that than bullying, so I suppose it was. Since it was in Facebook you can always kick them out of your friend list i... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: s**t Neurotypicals Say |
| Fireblossom |
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Posted: 19 Oct 2017, 2:58 am
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Replies: 25
Views: 1,219
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| Feel a little bit lost. I almost wish I knew someone who was more experienced at being autistic. Lol... Or even just someone to bounce ideas off with. For instance handling educating neurotypicals on autism. Managing emotions. How to talk to my boss about it if it becomes an issue at work... so man... |
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