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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Cliché but helpful |
JanuaryMan |
Posted: 27 Nov 2013, 6:37 am
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It has nothing to do with the ladder theory. I was just fooling around because it was a Wikihow article.
The article is not bad, though. And the steps definitely apply to both genders. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Cliché but helpful |
JanuaryMan |
Posted: 27 Nov 2013, 6:11 am
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: To the Dinos of WP |
JanuaryMan |
Posted: 26 Nov 2013, 8:48 pm
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How much of this idle widsom from Baz Luhrmann's Suncreen is true in your honest opinion? [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sTJ7AzBIJoI[/youtube]When I was growing up, I was always into the songs people my age never liked and this was one of them. But for whatever reason a lot of the things in... |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: Which new homepage design for Wrong Planet??! !! |
JanuaryMan |
Posted: 26 Nov 2013, 8:16 pm
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I have to agree with blueroses. Functionality over form any day. So yes, please improve the software first and foremost. I can live with several images of Alex Plank on every page every day, no matter how ulterior the motive. As long as the site works better and has more features I don't care. It's ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Confirming plans/not knowing if we're still dating :( |
JanuaryMan |
Posted: 26 Nov 2013, 10:06 am
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Don't dwell on the hygiene and just try to fix it where possible. Talking about it with her is only going to put her off even more. So instead just ask to hang out as per normal, and turn up squeaky clean, looking groomed and smelling great only for her to be surprised by a happier, cleaner you :) I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Question about Aspergers and dating |
JanuaryMan |
Posted: 26 Nov 2013, 9:38 am
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Typical of Asperger's. Establishing limits isn't always a strong point especially in an emotional capacity. Not being face to face and communicating over the phone or the net, it's also easier to forget the simple question of "would you say this to them in person so soon?" For what it's worth, I'm s... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Fellow group organizers/moderators - advice needed |
JanuaryMan |
Posted: 26 Nov 2013, 9:27 am
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Hi gang. Because of the nature of the topic I wasn't sure whether to put it here in Social Skills or Love and Dating but seeing as it pertains to diplomacy and social skills I figured here would be the best place. Anyways.....I manage/moderate and organize a fair few things in real life. One of thes... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So my GF cheated on me |
JanuaryMan |
Posted: 25 Nov 2013, 5:31 pm
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Replies: 152 Views: 7,412
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It's a situation where there's a possible invitation for more to happen, but typically NT's will send signals to each other and drop hints to each other there and then to figure out where the boundary line is for that evening. It's not something just set in stone because of precursor events. Sounds ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So my GF cheated on me |
JanuaryMan |
Posted: 25 Nov 2013, 2:32 pm
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Replies: 152 Views: 7,412
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I'm not sure why you quoted me and tequila but responded to tequila only but to clarify, I never said those things. What I did say was this: and don't be afraid to share intimacy with them. If they don't like it they will tell you or give you signals which you will have to figure out over time. Ther... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How would you respond in this situation? |
JanuaryMan |
Posted: 25 Nov 2013, 12:59 pm
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Replies: 10 Views: 1,072
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Ah.........never mind, this already transpired. Sounds like it went well, OP I'm glad for ya. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Giving up |
JanuaryMan |
Posted: 25 Nov 2013, 12:54 pm
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First off, leafplant, what you said is pure sexism. please take your sexist rantings elsewhere. It sickens me. How dare you speak to me in that one of voice. I am old enough to be your mother and have life experience you will thankfully never have. 1) Ageism. 2) Experience is nothing without the wi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So my GF cheated on me |
JanuaryMan |
Posted: 25 Nov 2013, 10:17 am
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Replies: 152 Views: 7,412
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I understand your wish to help people dude but can you do it without putting down other guys for once? I was on about general displays of affection and kissing. You think of all the time here I'd advocate forcing yourself onto a woman sexually, gf or not? That was low, man. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So my GF cheated on me |
JanuaryMan |
Posted: 25 Nov 2013, 9:11 am
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Replies: 152 Views: 7,412
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Shau, if it helps I was dating a girl and the same sort of situation came up when I was 17. I was a very nervous wreck of a guy then, and did not do anything in the relationship for fear of crossing boundaries or losing them. By the time I actually did anything she was no longer attracted to me so w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I want a good beautiful girlfriend |
JanuaryMan |
Posted: 25 Nov 2013, 6:20 am
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Still want that cheeseburger... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Okcupid women. |
JanuaryMan |
Posted: 25 Nov 2013, 6:17 am
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Replies: 34 Views: 3,115
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Probably the same as yours? This, man. It's not just these women that feel entitled to more than they should get. I'm not a fan of the marketing drivel that some of our other members try and sell around here but there will always be people that believe in a value or league system and they're going ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So my GF cheated on me |
JanuaryMan |
Posted: 25 Nov 2013, 6:09 am
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Replies: 152 Views: 7,412
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So I was wrong and JM / tequilla were right. There's no glory in it. Indeed. Sometimes I hate being right. Either way, sorry this happened to you man :( live in the pride of knowing she was not all she was cracked up to be while you remained honest. And yeah, grab a friend some video games and call... |
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