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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Qualities you DON'T want in a guy/girl? |
Spyral |
Posted: 08 Aug 2010, 2:00 am
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To pre-emptively rule out an entire class of people is closed-minded and stupid at best. Why single out Muslims and Hindus? I'm an atheist. Should I automatically rule out every Christian and Jew? Idiocy. IMO, it depends on how seriously you are dating the person. Casually, religion may not be a bi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Polyamory |
Spyral |
Posted: 08 Aug 2010, 1:05 am
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Replies: 109 Views: 15,988
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Bataar wrote: I've never been in a relationship with a single person, let alone multiple people.
While I have been in a relationship before, it's been a long time. And I had enough trouble making that one work, much less exponentially compounding the issue by adding someone else. I can't imagine. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Sucks to be single! |
Spyral |
Posted: 03 Aug 2010, 5:52 pm
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Replies: 68 Views: 12,136
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ha ha ha I was wrong on my last post. Mr Unobtainable doesn't like me, and I'm over him. At least I have more time to spend in the lab and listening to music. :thumright: Music is a cure to everything :afro: :dj: :dj: :dj: :dj: Very true! I love being able to lose myself entirely...completely out o... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Does anyone else HATE sex sometimes? |
Spyral |
Posted: 03 Aug 2010, 12:26 am
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Replies: 95 Views: 26,004
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BTW Kissing which requires lip contact is the pits. It should be abolished. I'm just the opposite. I love kissing. Really love it. Wish I could find someone that loved it as much as I do. But I don't really like any of the rest of it. I have a lot of weird touching issues (shocking!) and instead of... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: A question for any older people who mess about with writing |
Spyral |
Posted: 03 Aug 2010, 12:19 am
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Replies: 14 Views: 2,717
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Maybe a good piece of advice is just write anything . Good advice. Maybe you could start with a journal, because no one else would ever have to see it. Anything random that comes into your head, just jot it down. In fact, this could even be a small memo book you carry with you during the day as you... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Craziest thing you did for a crush? |
Spyral |
Posted: 01 Aug 2010, 1:11 am
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Replies: 58 Views: 7,546
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I drove through a really bad snow/ice storm to pick him up from work because his car had a flat. We hung out for a while that afternoon, but nothing ever came of that. (Was 10+ years ago, and doubt he ever knew that I had ulterior motives) Yesterday (new crush) I bought concert tickets for me and my... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Map for all Earthbound members of WrongPlanet |
Spyral |
Posted: 01 Aug 2010, 12:31 am
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Replies: 464 Views: 184,368
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Added myself...can't be the only one in Oklahoma, right? |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Going to church to meet people |
Spyral |
Posted: 01 Aug 2010, 12:21 am
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Replies: 43 Views: 10,197
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It depends....at the one I go to there are no unattached males my age. There were no unattached females my age where I went either. I left because the pastor I had a great deal of respect for left (his wife, also a pastor, was offered a pastoral position in Missouri), and it wasn't the same. I am L... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Church home? |
Spyral |
Posted: 01 Aug 2010, 12:13 am
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Replies: 7 Views: 947
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First, a disclaimer: This is not a thread in which to debate religious beliefs or practices. If you have advice, offer it. If you don't, just quietly move on. I appreciate it. I've attended churches of various denominations in the past 10 years (I'm 22), and right now "home" is a contemporary Presb... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Post a Picture of the Real You. |
Spyral |
Posted: 31 Jul 2010, 8:09 pm
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Replies: 12,621 Views: 2,155,981
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Romanes eunt domus? Poeple called "Romanes" they go to the house? Ah I think back to all the people I drove away by launching into reproducing the holy grail line for line. Good times, good times. Off topic, but I just did that! Drove someone away (temporarily) because I kept quoting from the "huge... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Aversion to the summer |
Spyral |
Posted: 31 Jul 2010, 7:16 pm
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Replies: 21 Views: 4,297
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Summer--ick! Oklahoma summers are really brutal on me. My mom says it's because I'm overweight (which I am) but I've always hated the heat. The best way I think to describe it is as offensive. Like I'm being personally attacked when I go outside. I don't mind sweating (I exercise at home and love to... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hello from Oklahoma! |
Spyral |
Posted: 31 Jul 2010, 3:55 am
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Replies: 8 Views: 1,186
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I'm kind of new to this whole forum business, so forgive me if this post is awkward or whatever... I'm 35 and I live in Oklahoma. I'm currently getting a second Bachelor's degree because I love school and want to avoid the real world as long as I can. Oh, and my first degree doesn't really get me an... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: do you ever feel asexual? |
Spyral |
Posted: 31 Jul 2010, 3:45 am
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I felt that way for a really long time, but recently have undergone a kind of awakening (in myself, but haven't done anything about it) because of some really intense attention (not aggressive, just very openly coming on to me which hadn't happened in a while) from a friend. Who is still a friend an... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Who prefers making out to intercourse? |
Spyral |
Posted: 31 Jul 2010, 3:27 am
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Replies: 31 Views: 512
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I'd have to say yes, although it's been a long time since I've done either. But I've got weird touching issues and need to be really comfortable with someone to let him touch me at all. I was just telling a friend of mine that I can't picture any scenario in which I ever get to have sex again. At on... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Older women? |
Spyral |
Posted: 31 Jul 2010, 2:58 am
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Replies: 57 Views: 13,775
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Huh...guess I'm an older woman, too, even though I'm only 35. Weird... But for me, it's all about life stages. It's hard for us "older gals" who are never married, no kids to find someone in our age range that is the same. The kids thing is really weird for me--I would be very wary personally about ... |
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