Albert Einstein explained the phenomenon as a distortion of the fabric of reality itself; a view perhaps best summarized later by the physicist John Wheeler: "Spacetime tells matter how to move; matter tells spacetime how to curve".
A force? Gravity is no more a "force" to matter than a garden hose is a "force" to water.
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The mere fact that science may not yet adequately explain an object, event, or experience does not mean the immediate explanation should automatically default to a conspiratorial, extraterrestrial, paranormal, or supernatural cause.