Obsession with changing usernames

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I tend to get rather obsessed with changing my usernames on social media and other websites. In the past, I have done it so much that I've deleted accounts because of it. It's like I just am okay with a username that I have but then I think of a new one and if it's available, I end up switching to it until the process repeats. Does anybody know of a way to discipline myself in this regard?

Short of cutting off your access to the internet, no. A lot of people do this, I think it's a way of searching for an identity - although that's probably an over-simplification of a more complex issue. As you get older and come to know yourself better, you may find you do it less or hardly at all. The only practical disadvantage I can think of is that you may lose contact with people who knew you under another name, although obviously you can tell them. There's an advantage, too: if someone is being unpleasant to you online, changing username can effectively throw them off your trail.

I do it on Steam depending on what game I am currently playing, for example if I am playing Fallout i'll be named "First, Worst Hope of Humanity". I tend to be indecisive about what to choose sometimes, but when I find one I like I tend to stick with it for a month or two.

Wow I used to be obsessed with closing and restarting a new Facebook account.

Obsess over changing your passwords instead, you are supposed to do that anyways.

I use LastPass to manage my accounts and passwords, and I use their 'maximum entropy' password generator, which is a five dollar word for really hard to guess.

Some time back on the Ars Technica website there was an article on password cracking, a real eye opener, some of the recommendations to prevent being compromised were
- long passwords
- max entropy
- change often
- two-factor authentication.

I started typing up about two-factor authentication, but then I realized I was falling into the Aspie trap, talking on and on about something nobody else cares about. Google it if you are interested.

Stop doing it I guess.

A name or "handle" on a site is used to give you some identity, a way for others to refer to you. If you keep changing it you are on the surface making yourself more anonymous. Apart from what someone suggested as you subconsciously trying to "find yourself" changing names all of the time doesn't actually achieve much except cause confusion.

I normally use passphrases rather than passwords.

Typically they are four or five word nonsense phrases.

Some examples would be:

cajun cats consuming carnivorous canines
egregious example indicating pterodactyl diets
1812 - a very good year for overtures

The best thing about this approach is that once you learn the passphrase, once you get the first word the rest comes naturally to you, but not to anyone else. It can be quite confusing to use two different passphrases that start with the same word.

My strongest passphrases are complete nonsense sentences such as:

We went to the desert seeking fine wooden daisies, but all we found was a pool and nine tractors.

Once my password was "t h e r e a r e 22 s p a c e s i n t h i s p/w."