ironpony wrote:
About the whole Bond being a rapist. It seems to me that this is possible in two of the movies, Goldfinger and Thunderball.
SPOILERS FROM THOSE MOVIES
But in Goldfinger, why didn't p**** Galore just knee Bond in the nuts if she really didn't want him? She seems to be an expert martial artist, and could have put up more of a fight, so is this inconsistent with her character, if she didn't want it?
Also, in Thunderball, the woman who was blackmailed by Bond into having sex was totally into it, because she was all over Bond after, even though she was blackmailed. So she was turned on by the blackmail and found it naughty, hot and arousing. So is it really rape if the women responded positively? Now it's a perfectly legit argument that the woman would not realistically respond positively.
But does in the context of those movies, is it really rape or is it just unrealistically written women more so? Also, I watched Goldfinger with my gf and she was really turned on by the rape scene, and wanted to have sex after. So is it really that bad by today's standards if a modern woman like my gf was turned on by it? Perhaps women can get into James Bond too, and it's just a fantasy to have fun with and is not meant as realistic?
the problem is not that it's a fantasy, and that thibgs can't be enjoyed as fantasies. The problem is that you need to learn to distinguish between a fiction you should only enjoy if you want it, like James Bond, and the fictions that guide human behaviour - like the bible, general moral ideas and so on.
it's not clear to me how I should behave in life, and there's all sorts of fictional characters showing me how to conduct myself - and the consequences. What usually is not part of the story is how much of a fictional environment has been constructed around a character for these results to make any sense.
so, James Bond isn't real, but neither is the woman, the villain, the global conflicts portrayed in these films or the race relationships. It's not just that you could never be as cool as Bond - even if you were, the environment wouldn't respond like it does in the movies, or the bible, or according to the moral sentiments of your peer group.
maybe if we had a way to distinguish reality from fiction, we could enjoy this freely, but for now, it's a bit complicated.
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