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21 Jan 2019, 9:27 am

^^^Good question.

I have never liked pictures of myself even when I was a child. I did not look (in the pictures) the way I felt. If those pictures were me, then yuck!

The obvious psych explanation would be that I am only a shadow of myself. :roll: But I think that is too simplistic.

I think shadow pictures allow me to fill in who I am, and not just the outside part. All of them are outdoors so I also think shadow pictures are always showing me in the sun and connected to the natural world, which for me, is a better perspective.


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22 Jan 2019, 2:26 am

that is prolly a healthy thing for you :wtg: I always thought I looked "off." like I wasn't quite put together right. that my external movements were alien.



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23 Jan 2019, 8:57 pm

Good point. Thanks AB. Also, the few photos I have of me that I like the best are a couple from when I was a very small child and later as an adult, but they are from the back or side and you can't really see my face. I never really thought about it that much before. Thanks!


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23 Jan 2019, 9:10 pm

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Thanks for your suggestions; I'll certainly take them onboard. My reading list is loaded with Dickens and Dostoyevsky for this month (two rather different, though not entirely different authors, I know), but I'll try to make sure February is a Brontë month. I know October is your Brontë month (well, I suppose your whole year consists of Brontë months, but I read that you had a particular tradition of reading Wuthering Heights in October), but at this stage, I'm too excited to wait that long.

I've not read any Anne at all, and I can't remember ever seeing her in any of my favourite bookstores - though I probably wouldn't have noticed anyway.

I'll let you - and anybody else who cares - know what I think once I've reread WT. I have to admit that my first reading (2013, I'd say - I was SEVENTEEN) was a largely cursory and unsatisfactory reading. I had a habit of reading classics in this fashion back then, wanting to dispatch them as quickly as possible so that I could claim the intellectual "bragging rights" of having read them, but with a minimum of pain. I now see that this attitude was thoroughly wrong and am having to reread many of the titles from that time. I just hope I can get away with not having to reread Moby Dick, which genuinely was TORTURE.


Off topic, but have you read Crime and Punishment, and if so, what did you think of it? I enjoyed it very much.


I have read it, and consider it one of his weaker novels - as he did himself - although I love everything he wrote. Being hyper-empathetic, I have a hard time hearing about graphic acts of violence; this is a problem I have with all of his major four novels, Crime and Punishment, The Idiot, The Brothers Karamazov and House of the Dead, insofar as they all contain unnecessarily explicit descriptions of violent acts.

I love the theme of Christian redemption at the end of the novel, and the idea that even as depraved a character as Raskolnikov can be redeemed by the Christian power of love. I do think this theme was summed up better and more maturely in Brothers Karamazov and even House of the Dead, however. Dostoyevsky considered The Idiot his best novel, and Prince Myshkin his surrogate son. I think if he had lived a little longer, however, he'd have concluded - rightly - that Brothers Karamazov was his best work. Alyosha, the hero, was actually named after his biological son, who died in infancy (I can't remember whether before or after The Idiot).

Dostoyevsky's view that our humanity is all that matters, is all that is capable of redeeming the endless suffering of our "being-in-the-world-as-such", as existentialists would call it, is I think the Alpha and Omega of his philosophy, and there are passages in Crime and Punishment which convey this very movingly. Just don't, whatever you do, view it as a detective story or a voyeuristic "slasher" type story. It is, apart from its quintessentially Russian morbid obsession with pain and violence, a fundamentally and humbly Christian work, though I don't mean this in too doctrinaire a sense. It's Christian in the sense that it's such a powerful eulogy on the Christian virtues and their power to transform the life of the lost, lonely individual; not to rid him of his suffering, but to allow him to achieve a kind of nobility through it; a kind of joy and despair at the same time. The central theme of Crime and Punishment is best summed up in these words from Brothers Karamazov, written by Dmitri to his brother Alyosha, after the former is convicted (presumably falsely) of patricide and sent to Siberia:

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Brother, I’m not depressed and haven’t lost spirit. Life everywhere is life, life is in ourselves and not in the external. There will be people near me, and to be a human being among human beings, and remain one forever, no matter what misfortunes befall, not to become depressed, and not to falter – this is what life is, herein lies its task.


Thank you very much for this. Prometheus. I didn't see this until now. I have Brothers in a vintage limited edition hard cover with it's own dust case and prints from Fritz Eichenberg for the illustrations. I have started it, but life happens and it falls by the wayside.

I definitely didn't see Crime & Punishment as a slasher or detective novel and was focused very intently on Raskolnikov's descent and his realization of understanding the consequence of his actions had in the end.



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02 Feb 2019, 3:16 pm

Can you see the real me? Can ya? CAN YA?! !
you tube video can you see the real me the who



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02 Feb 2019, 6:54 pm

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you tube video can you see the real me the who

Not bad :)

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06 Feb 2019, 8:53 pm

^^^^ Beautiful blue eyes. Great hair.


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07 Feb 2019, 1:56 pm

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^^^^ Beautiful blue eyes. Great hair.


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10 Feb 2019, 4:50 am

Prometheus18 wrote:

I have read it, and consider it one of his weaker novels - as he did himself - although I love everything he wrote. Being hyper-empathetic, I have a hard time hearing about graphic acts of violence; this is a problem I have with all of his major four novels, Crime and Punishment, The Idiot, The Brothers Karamazov and House of the Dead, insofar as they all contain unnecessarily explicit descriptions of violent acts.

I love the theme of Christian redemption at the end of the novel, and the idea that even as depraved a character as Raskolnikov can be redeemed by the Christian power of love. I do think this theme was summed up better and more maturely in Brothers Karamazov and even House of the Dead, however. Dostoyevsky considered The Idiot his best novel, and Prince Myshkin his surrogate son. I think if he had lived a little longer, however, he'd have concluded - rightly - that Brothers Karamazov was his best work. Alyosha, the hero, was actually named after his biological son, who died in infancy (I can't remember whether before or after The Idiot).

Dostoyevsky's view that our humanity is all that matters, is all that is capable of redeeming the endless suffering of our "being-in-the-world-as-such", as existentialists would call it, is I think the Alpha and Omega of his philosophy, and there are passages in Crime and Punishment which convey this very movingly. Just don't, whatever you do, view it as a detective story or a voyeuristic "slasher" type story. It is, apart from its quintessentially Russian morbid obsession with pain and violence, a fundamentally and humbly Christian work, though I don't mean this in too doctrinaire a sense. It's Christian in the sense that it's such a powerful eulogy on the Christian virtues and their power to transform the life of the lost, lonely individual; not to rid him of his suffering, but to allow him to achieve a kind of nobility through it; a kind of joy and despair at the same time. The central theme of Crime and Punishment is best summed up in these words from Brothers Karamazov, written by Dmitri to his brother Alyosha, after the former is convicted (presumably falsely) of patricide and sent to Siberia:

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Brother, I’m not depressed and haven’t lost spirit. Life everywhere is life, life is in ourselves and not in the external. There will be people near me, and to be a human being among human beings, and remain one forever, no matter what misfortunes befall, not to become depressed, and not to falter – this is what life is, herein lies its task.


Sorry to derail further, but seeing a discussion about Dostoievsky here is so unusual I can't resist.

Try Demons/The Possessed - he anticipates the horrors of the Bolshevik revolution and the depravity of their methods and goals in uncanny detail and is generally a fascinating, if deeply disturbing book. Given some of your views and how well read you are, I think you would appreciate it.

Also, Joseph Frank wrote an excellent biography where he puts Dostoyevsky's work in context: historical, political and ideological without which I don't think his work can be fully understood and appreciated.


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10 Feb 2019, 9:14 am

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Having fun at the Big Gay Out today. Very hot, lots of headache tablets, but fun.


You look super, feeli0 and you look like you're having a grand time on a beautiful day in an amazing location. Thank you for sharing.



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10 Feb 2019, 9:58 am

BenderRodriguez wrote:
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I have read it, and consider it one of his weaker novels - as he did himself - although I love everything he wrote. Being hyper-empathetic, I have a hard time hearing about graphic acts of violence; this is a problem I have with all of his major four novels, Crime and Punishment, The Idiot, The Brothers Karamazov and House of the Dead, insofar as they all contain unnecessarily explicit descriptions of violent acts.

I love the theme of Christian redemption at the end of the novel, and the idea that even as depraved a character as Raskolnikov can be redeemed by the Christian power of love. I do think this theme was summed up better and more maturely in Brothers Karamazov and even House of the Dead, however. Dostoyevsky considered The Idiot his best novel, and Prince Myshkin his surrogate son. I think if he had lived a little longer, however, he'd have concluded - rightly - that Brothers Karamazov was his best work. Alyosha, the hero, was actually named after his biological son, who died in infancy (I can't remember whether before or after The Idiot).

Dostoyevsky's view that our humanity is all that matters, is all that is capable of redeeming the endless suffering of our "being-in-the-world-as-such", as existentialists would call it, is I think the Alpha and Omega of his philosophy, and there are passages in Crime and Punishment which convey this very movingly. Just don't, whatever you do, view it as a detective story or a voyeuristic "slasher" type story. It is, apart from its quintessentially Russian morbid obsession with pain and violence, a fundamentally and humbly Christian work, though I don't mean this in too doctrinaire a sense. It's Christian in the sense that it's such a powerful eulogy on the Christian virtues and their power to transform the life of the lost, lonely individual; not to rid him of his suffering, but to allow him to achieve a kind of nobility through it; a kind of joy and despair at the same time. The central theme of Crime and Punishment is best summed up in these words from Brothers Karamazov, written by Dmitri to his brother Alyosha, after the former is convicted (presumably falsely) of patricide and sent to Siberia:

Quote:
Brother, I’m not depressed and haven’t lost spirit. Life everywhere is life, life is in ourselves and not in the external. There will be people near me, and to be a human being among human beings, and remain one forever, no matter what misfortunes befall, not to become depressed, and not to falter – this is what life is, herein lies its task.


Sorry to derail further, but seeing a discussion about Dostoievsky here is so unusual I can't resist.

Try Demons/The Possessed - he anticipates the horrors of the Bolshevik revolution and the depravity of their methods and goals in uncanny detail and is generally a fascinating, if deeply disturbing book. Given some of your views and how well read you are, I think you would appreciate it.

Also, Joseph Frank wrote an excellent biography where he puts Dostoyevsky's work in context: historical, political and ideological without which I don't think his work can be fully understood and appreciated.


I've been dying to read both of those works for some time, but I've never seen them at my local libraries or bookstores, and I can barely afford online prices. In fact, I've just looked on Abebooks.co.uk (won't buy from Amazon for ethical reasons) and can't even find a copy of the Frank biography. I'll buy Devils shortly, I think; it's the only major work by Dostoyevsky that I haven't read, though I have to say that I'm more interested in his philosophical/religious ideas than his political ones.



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10 Feb 2019, 1:15 pm

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Have you posted a pic of yourself before ? You are exactly as I imagined you.


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Have you posted a pic of yourself before ? You are exactly as I imagined you.



I have posted a pic before but not looking so bright and cheerful.

After the sh*tfight of the Pride Parade it was nice to have a day that resembled celebration. Our community has been torn apart by the Parade fight, and I noticed a lot of people were absent that would normally be there. Conflict conflict :( :( :(


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10 Feb 2019, 3:42 pm

You made my day, feels. Is that a professional photo? It looks like a tourism or Pride magazine advert.
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