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06 Mar 2008, 5:51 pm

Just lurking in the murk......


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06 Mar 2008, 5:59 pm

hartzofspace wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
I would have had to go back and pay, too.
and it would have not been for some noble principles or moral scruple.

nope, it would have been for self serving reasons and simple survival. My karma would have smacked me in the back of my noggin' v(much less padding than my a**) and I would have no licience to whinge!

that ALONE would have driven me back to pay!

Merle


I am glad so many agree with me. My reasons for returning to pay for the item were much like yours, Merle. And, not only would it have made me cringe inside to the point of illness, there would have been a quality to the whole transaction that would have jarred, like making up a bed and leaving one corner not tucked in. I would have felt poor, pathetic, stupid, and misguided. Looking back, I could tell those people thought that I really cared about their opinions and/or approval, and didn't know that I couldn't possibly have acted in any other way. Just set in my ways, I guess! :)


You're supposed to tuck the corners in?

Oh. That explains a lot.



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06 Mar 2008, 6:09 pm

Easter is always the 1st Sunday after the 1st full moon after the Spring Equinox (which is March 20). This dating of Easter is based on the lunar calendar that Hebrew people used to identify Passover, which is why it moves around on our Roman calendar.

Here's the interesting info. This year is the earliest Easter any of us will ever see the rest of our lives! And only the most elderly of our population have ever seen it this early (95 years old or above!). And none of us have ever, or will ever, see it a day earlier! Here's the facts:

1) The next time Easter will be this early (March 23) will be the year 2228 (220 years from now). The last time it was this early was 1913 (so if you're 95 or older, you are the only ones that were around for that!).

2) The next t ime it will be a day earlier, March 22, will be in the year 2285 (277 years from now). The last time it was on March 22 was 1818. So, no one alive today has or will ever see it any earlier than this year!



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06 Mar 2008, 6:44 pm

Nan wrote:
You're supposed to tuck the corners in?

Oh. That explains a lot.


I meant it as a metaphor. Guess it depends upon how you make your bed. :)


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06 Mar 2008, 6:57 pm

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Easter ...

2) The next time it will be a day earlier, March 22, will be in the year 2285 (277 years from now). The last time it was on March 22 was 1818. So, no one alive today has or will ever see it any earlier than this year!

Not unless some clever cookie comes up with time travel in the meanwhile. :)

@Hartz: Your "I've underpaid; should I go back and square up?" dilemma, that was interesting. I've never been that good with calculating sums in my head, so there have undoubtedly been many occasions where the shop assistant has given me too much change, or too little, and I haven't noticed.

If I do notice any error on the spot, I instantly point it out because, well, if the sticker says $2.50, then I should pay $2.50, right? (And yes, I am hopeless at bargaining or negotiating on price.)

Once I'm out the door, though, I'd be loath to go back in, whether the error were in my favour or not, purely because of the embarrassment factor.



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06 Mar 2008, 7:09 pm

hartzofspace wrote:
Nan wrote:
You're supposed to tuck the corners in?

Oh. That explains a lot.


I meant it as a metaphor. Guess it depends upon how you make your bed. :)


I tuck the corners in. My mother taught me to do it that way so that's the way I've always done it. She referred to it as making "hospital corners." Since her mother was the upstairs maid for a wealthy family who owned a tannery and employed most of the people in the area, I guess my grandmother taught my mother about "hospital corners."



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06 Mar 2008, 7:59 pm

You made your bed. Now lie in it!! !! ! :shameonyou:


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06 Mar 2008, 8:12 pm

I came across this poet and this poem while googling my maiden name just for the heck of it.
Does anybody else think it's as wonderful as I do? I'd be interested to know. I have a feeling that Krex would love it a lot because I remember a post of hers from away back where she told of a trip to work along a dark road at night and swerving to avoid hitting an animal.

I think this James Tate fellow will be my next or newest obsession.

James Tate - Thinking Ahead To Possible Options And A Worst-Case Scenario
I swerved to avoid hitting a squirrel
in the center of the road and that's when
the deer came charging out of the forest
and forced me to hit the brakes for all I
was worth and I careened back to the other
side of the road just as a skunk came toddling
out of Mrs. Bancroft's front yard and I swung
back perhaps just grazing it a bit. I glanced
quickly in the rearview mirror and in that
instant a groundhog waddled from the side
of the road and I zigzagged madly and don't
know if I nipped it or not because up ahead I
could see a coyote stalking the Collier's
cat. Oh well, I said, and drove the rest
of the way home without incident.



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06 Mar 2008, 9:07 pm

cosmiccat wrote:
I came across this poet and this poem while googling my maiden name just for the heck of it.
Does anybody else think it's as wonderful as I do? I'd be interested to know. I have a feeling that Krex would love it a lot because I remember a post of hers from away back where she told of a trip to work along a dark road at night and swerving to avoid hitting an animal.

I think this James Tate fellow will be my next or newest obsession.

James Tate - Thinking Ahead To Possible Options And A Worst-Case Scenario
I swerved to avoid hitting a squirrel
in the center of the road and that's when
the deer came charging out of the forest
and forced me to hit the brakes for all I
was worth and I careened back to the other
side of the road just as a skunk came toddling
out of Mrs. Bancroft's front yard and I swung
back perhaps just grazing it a bit. I glanced
quickly in the rearview mirror and in that
instant a groundhog waddled from the side
of the road and I zigzagged madly and don't
know if I nipped it or not because up ahead I
could see a coyote stalking the Collier's
cat. Oh well, I said, and drove the rest
of the way home without incident.


The long and winding drive home topic

Just reading this got me reeling. I could feel every turn of the wheel as James tried to avoid each of these animals that were unaware that their fate rested purely on his skill.
I almost had a panic attack. Scary. What a considerate human being he was, and he was fortunate that he did not wind up in his own car accident. 8O

Thanks, cosmiccat


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06 Mar 2008, 9:34 pm

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Welcome Zonder....I also live on the Great Lakes,mine is Superior.<-----I just made up that Joke and they CLAIM that aspies have no sense of humor!! !!Actually my humor tends to be more Joseph Heller,Adam Douglas,Gunter Grass(sp?)

I am also 6 months to the day,older then you....You didn't happen to go to Duluth East High School did you?(I was the girl with the scars on her wrists,hugging the walls and reading a book while I walked to class.....ah,good times,so sad it's over)


Dont feel bad about WP addiction,even if you kicked it,you will just replace it with another obsession and this one sure beats heroin,blogging or Sudoku.


Hey Krex: We all know that Superior is Superior, although every once in a while the upper Peninsula of Michigan threatens to break off as the 51st state and call itself Superior. I live in the Lower Peninsula - under "the Bridge" - a troll.

Sounds like December, 1963 was a very good year . . . for producing anxiety. 1964 wasn't much better.

I think I'd take potato vodka over Sodoku any day.

Thanks for the greeting!

Z



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06 Mar 2008, 10:00 pm

I'm wondering, has anyone ever had a dream that had you waking up laughing?

I've heard of people waking up screaming, but not wanting to laugh.

I just ask cause I've had a couple like that.



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06 Mar 2008, 11:36 pm

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07 Mar 2008, 12:28 am

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I'm wondering, has anyone ever had a dream that had you waking up laughing?

I've heard of people waking up screaming, but not wanting to laugh.

I just ask cause I've had a couple like that.


I remember waking up laughing one time, because I had realized in my dream that the love I was feeling for this wonderful man was not coming from him, as I had thought, but it arose out of ME. I was able to let him be what ever he was and wanted to be without thinking he was the font and author of my wonderful love. He loved it, and responded very well. I didn't marry him, because, well - because I am not the marrying kind, actually.

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07 Mar 2008, 1:05 am

This just seemed so appropriate...
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07 Mar 2008, 5:06 am

CC, James Tate reminds me of Richard Brautigan.

Deacon, the grey kitten - so adorable. The angst in those blue, blue eyes... :)



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07 Mar 2008, 9:19 am

Quoting Sartesue:

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Just reading this got me reeling. I could feel every turn of the wheel as James tried to avoid each of these animals that were unaware that their fate rested purely on his skill.
I almost had a panic attack. Scary. What a considerate human being he was, and he was fortunate that he did not wind up in his own car accident. Shocked


Thanks for responding Sartesue. Sorry you almost had a panic attack. To me it seems like a dream. The kind where just when you think you're out of trouble/danger some more trouble pops up worse than the previous. From squirrel to coyote. So I can see how it would evoke underlying anxiety.

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CC, James Tate reminds me of Richard Brautigan.


Ah, yes. The Springhill Mine disaster and Trout Fishing in America.
Cosmiccat Shorty :wink: :D