blessedmom wrote:
Nan wrote:
blessedmom wrote:
Hypothetically, I think she knows what her hypothetical friend thinks.
Uhhh, actually, "she" doesn't have a clue.


"She" mentioned it a few weeks(?) ago and her not really adventurous friend told her that she would stay where she is, as she knows the ropes and the stress may not be worth the money. But her friend is sort of a moron when it comes to all matters financial......

It may be best to listen to those whose heads aren't in the clouds most of the time.

Ohyeah. When the "unoffical" word came through. Senior Moment there. I actually hadn't really expected they were really going to ask. But they did.
I'm thinking the answer will be "no, but thanks for thinking of me". I'm already twitchy, if I crater out it's not like there are plenty of jobs to just walk into at my age (ageism does exist - especially if you LOOK like you're not under 40) and there's no safety net out there anymore. Not worth taking the chance of losing the house, becoming ill, and draining my bank account over it. Not to mention what's left of my sanity. Already been down that road, there's not enough time left in my working career to recover from a total blow-out again.
I could probably do it by completely red-lining my health and mental state for the three years, and I'd be limping badly at the end. If I managed to make it that long, I could then move on - assuming the economy pulled up by then. There's a lot of big "ifs" there.... No, I think if I was 25 or 30 I'd go for it. Not now, this late in my "career". There's too much to lose without the time to put it back together again.

Of course, did this kind of thing come along when I WAS 25 or 30? No. Could I have handled it anyway? No, not then. Not in a million years.
Life's all about timing.
Thanks for the feedback.