cosmiccat wrote:
We live in an old house, about 100 years old I think. We were young and stupid (stupider

) and made so many mistakes thinking they were improvements. If only we had the sense then to leave the house as it was instead of trying to modernize. Ugh. We had all our windows replaced with modern thermo-pane windows. Duh. We actually had magnificent windows with transoms above each window. We could have put stained glass in the transoms. We put knotty pine in the living and dining rooms. Nice yes, but not period. We blocked (covered over) doorways that were useful and allowed more freedom of access. Duh! We were idiots. Ah, my dream is to restore it but that won't happen unless I hit the lottery or my husband turns into a clone of you.
My parents did a lot of modernizing when I was growing up - nailed shut pocket doors, ripped out original fireplace mantles etc. I got interested in history and then kept at them to restore instead of modernize. (I know they thought I was really annoying!) I always figure that people make the decisions that they do because it works for them at the time.
The house in the picture still had its original gaslight chandeliers and wall fixtures. The kitchen was the only thing that had been remodeled, and who wants to work in an 1880s kitchen?
I don't suggest that anyone get an old house to restore unless they are really handy or have mega-lottery amounts of cash! Your husband probably is able to enjoy things other than stripping woodwork!!
Z