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14 May 2008, 11:22 pm

I only know about oxytocin in cows.

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First, let us remember what the natural hormone, oxytocin, does. It is secreted internally by the cow anytime the cervix feels pressure (as in calving) and when the udder feels nudging (as by the calf). Unfortunately with difficult/very painful calving, the natural release of oxytocin within the cow is hindered. Recent research has shown that giving 1-2cc IM or IV 4-6 times daily in the first 2 days after freshening helps best to contract the uterus and release the placenta.


From http://www.penndutchcowcare.org/html/MooNewsMar2003.htm



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14 May 2008, 11:48 pm

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I went to a Tony Attwood seminar yesterday. I met up with Szygish.

We found a couple of seats together next to a lady. After a couple of hours I asked her whether she was a parent or a teacher.

Neither, she was a 44 year old who had just been diagnosed with Asperger's and came to the conference looking for some answers. Szygish and I exchanged e-mails with her.

My husband collects stamps, my sons collect cars, bionicles and lego, and I collect Aspies!

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we are everywhere

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15 May 2008, 12:24 am

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I had an interesting experience in the super-market. I was finished shopping and in line for the cashier. There was a woman in front of me and the cashier was just finishing up with her order, ringing up her last few items. I began putting my groceries/items up on the counter beginning with two cans of coffee. I had a very large order. Because the woman ahead of me was almost finished I didn't use the dividing bar to divide our orders. I just figured the coffee cans were where my order began and the other woman's ended.

The cashier asked the woman if the coffee belonged to her order. I told the cashier "No, the coffee is the beginning of my order. The conveyor belt was moving as I continued to put my items on it. The cashier said to me "You have to put the bar down or it will keep going." I took her words completely literal. In my mind I thought she meant that if I put the bar (the dividing bar) down the conveyor belt would stop and that would have prevented my coffee cans from moving up the belt and possibly getting mixed in with the other woman's items. So I replied to the cashier "Oh, really, that's neat, that's really cool," thinking that someone had invented a dividing bar that would stop the belt from moving. After all, she did say if I didn't put the bar down "it will keep going." I thought she meant the belt and that there must be a magnet or something in the bar that would stop the action that rolls the conveyor belt. The cashier must have thought I was being rude or sarcastic or maybe mocking her when I said "that's neat". She didn't respond at all and throughout the rest of our transaction she only looked at and spoke to my husband who was packing the groceries. As we left the store my husband said to me "Wow, that cashier was really nice and so polite." I started laughing and said "She may have been nice to you but she was rude as hell to me." I told him that she was being extra nice to him because she didn't like me. On the drive home it dawned on me what had transpired. It's pretty funny, what happened on that occasion, but sometimes it not so funny and taking words literally and then responding to those words as if they were literal makes people angry with me and I start thinking I must be some kind of terrible person that people always get mad at. :roll:
When I told my husband what the woman said and how I thought a new dividing bar had been invented or put into use since the last time we shopped at that store, he laughed too, but said "it would be a good invention."


Carol, I hope you don't mind, because I can get on your nerves when I do this, but I have read your post over a couple of times and don't get it.
What did the cashier actually mean? What was the enlightenment of your exchange with the cashier ? I can't see anything but your first understanding.

Merle



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15 May 2008, 12:55 am

Hey, all.

I like all of you, and this is off topic perhaps a little, but I thought I would let you all know that I've decided to take some time off from the board.

This isn't to draw attention, but instead because I do not want anyone to take the fact that I'm not here personally. I like all of you very much.

But sometimes when I join an internet community I do start to post obsessively, which cuts in on my time alone and on my sleep (I cannot sleep until two- three hours after I get off the computer), which of coarse affects me elsewhere.

If I continue to post, I would be cranky. I don't know if I could explain it other than to say that I am the type of person that needs a lot of time to myself, and find it hard sometimes to balance being online with that time to myself. Eventually, I can find the balance getting a little out of whack so that I get a little obsessive about trying to contribute (posting a lot, and when that happens I can get annoying).

I do like to chat with everyone here and when I feel ready I will come back. I like you all.

And that's why I don't want you to see my cranky side.

And since I myself do sometimes get tempted to take things that I see and hear personally, I really do want to stress that this has nothing to do with anyone on the board. Just that I've been very tired lately (and I think it is related to feeling stressed at work).

Sorry, I ramble when I'm feeling worn out. I would like to know how you all balance this, though, when I come back.


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15 May 2008, 1:13 am

morning-after...I think we all take breaks from here, I certainly have to when I get to out of balance...ie...the apartment is so cluttered that even the cat is tripping over stuff or I get a new "interest". It's totally normal and it's nice that you let people know because I do worry when people just disappear here.

So, enjoy your break and come back when your ready...even if that is tomorrow,(sometimes I say my goodbyes before I have actually kick my addictions.)


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15 May 2008, 2:38 am

Yes, Morning_after, take your break. I think everyone takes breaks. We'll wait to hear from you again.

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I think there must be some chronic learning disability that is so prevalent among NT's that it goes unnoticed by the "experts". Krex


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15 May 2008, 3:51 am

Sam, I wish you a speedy resolution to your scheduling dilemmas, and I look forward to your return.



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15 May 2008, 7:38 am

blessedmom wrote:
:D :lol: Lurking and enjoying a joyful Lemon!!


:D

you join the jumping merle?

an 'aspie collection' jippie ! !! !


richie did i already mention i always enjoy your smileys?

a break morning-after is perfectly normal
(kind of you to tell us) (is sam==morning_after ?)



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15 May 2008, 10:43 am

lemon wrote:
blessedmom wrote:
:D :lol: Lurking and enjoying a joyful Lemon!!


:D

you join the jumping merle?

an 'aspie collection' jippie ! !! !


richie did i already mention i always enjoy your smileys?

a break morning-after is perfectly normal
(kind of you to tell us) (is sam==morning_after ?)



JIPPIE! I am jumping of joy with Sarah and Lauri!

I fired my erstwhile psychologist, came out (about AS) at work with my supervisor, got a referral to a practicing psychologist with an office and appointments and insurance co-pays just like real people do!

who knew?!?

Merle



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15 May 2008, 1:43 pm

Sounds like good news Merle. By earstwhile...do you mean the guy who was coming out of retirement or someone else?

Does this new psychologist have experience in adult AS ?


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15 May 2008, 2:01 pm

Hey Krex! Sorry about my delay in responding - just got home from work. Your stim and orgasms did/do increase your oxytocin levels, and if the oxytocin levels are increased high enough, they do reduce anxiety (and promote bonding with others).
http://www.pubmedcentral.nih.gov/articl ... id=1621060

Interesingly, increasing oxytocin levels increase obsessive compulsive disorders (OCD), which would explain a positive feedback loop on your stimming:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/7524 ... t=Abstract
This also explains the attachment one finds between mothers and their children, and between lovers (a positive feedback "attachment" obsessive-compulsive loop).

I found this question on the website "Autism Today":
"Question: Do you have any information on the correlation between mothers who have had induced labor with potocin and an epidural and the incidence of autism? If so where is this research and why do they feel these medications can attribute to the initiation of pervasive developmental delay symptoms in children? Thanks, Kim Peters MS OTR/L CHT
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: Plasma oxytocin is low in autism. Treatment with oxytocin reduces autistic behavior but a published study showed no correlation with autism and administration of pitocin (oxytocin)for labor induction. Biol Psychiatry. 1998 Feb 15;43(4):270-7. Plasma oxytocin levels in autistic children.Modahl C, Green L, Fein D, Morris M, Waterhouse L, Feinstein C, Levin H."

According to this ten year old article (which I have not reviewed to see if it is statistically sound or properly designed), plasma oxytocin is low in autism.

According to the following article (2003), treating autism and Asperger's patients with oxytocin is not a cure, but does appear to reduce one of six parameters examined, namely - it reduces repetitive behaviors:
http://www.nature.com/npp/journal/v28/n ... 0021a.html
Upon examination of this study, I would class it as a "preliminary study" only, and recommend holding reservations about the validity of this study, as it was conducted on a very small number of patients (15 patients: 6 with autism, 9 with Asperger's) unless and/or until it's results are verified by study of a larger sample and/or by various research teams working independently.

The question that immediately pops up in my mind is: why would an increase in oxytocin increase OCD behaviors, yet reduce repetitive behaviors in autistics? (Why does it reduce OCD behaviors in autistics? Is this an anomaly, and therefore oxytocin could be used as an autistic diagnostic tool?; a different oxytocin neuronal pathway which "turns on" in the presence of increased oxytocin levels in autistics?; is this study is completely wrong? etc...)

The following link is an "odds and ends" attempt at correlating autism, mirror neurons, electromagnetic radiation (EMFs disrupting nitric oxide synthase) and the effects of nitric oxide synthase isoform deletion on oxytocin and vasopressin messenger RNA (in the mouse hypothalamus):
http://www.buergerwelle.de/pdf/autism_em_bits.htm

I would say that what we are seeing here are a lot of hypotheses, a lot of preliminary and trial studies, and information that will one day either be discounted and/or supported with further research. In other words, right now it is interesting, but not yet "gospel".

One other thing: it has been found that increasing oxytocin levels high enough may increase anxiety levels (which could possibly explain the anxiety/jealousy seen in some couples when they are apart from each other).

Likely, your stims and orgasms bring your oxytocin to a level that reduces your anxiety levels (and perhaps a positive feedback loop to continue the behavior).



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15 May 2008, 2:09 pm

Time for a nap! :wink: :lol:
I take breaks too, Sam. Come back when you are caught up again.
Hello to all, and good night/morning/afternoon.



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15 May 2008, 3:54 pm

Thanks for the feedback Chuck...I am still not sure how the "trust" things fits though,as I thought I had a lot of trust in people when I was very young. I didn't feel bonded to them, however, so maybe my trust was just part of over all nievity?

Anywhooo, enjoy the nap and thanks for responding. Looks like I may have to wait to get oxytocin nasal spray :cry:


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15 May 2008, 4:05 pm

Ok. Reality check.

check received, thenk yew!



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15 May 2008, 4:29 pm

I always read the oxytocin/autism issue with great interest. My youngest son is the one who is closest to actually being classic autistic and when he was born, I hemorrhaged because my body wasn't producing oxytocin on it's own. Because my body had so little, his did as well, and it stands to reason that it may have been that way while he was developing. With my daughter, I was given oxytocin during labor and delivery and she is very obsessive compulsive. The correlation has always seemed to be there with those two of my children. Just a point of interest... :)


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15 May 2008, 4:49 pm

Chuck wrote:
Time for a nap! :wink: :lol:
I take breaks too, Sam. Come back when you are caught up again.
Hello to all, and good night/morning/afternoon.


Hello and get some sleep! All work and no sleep makes Chuck...... uummmmmmm............. would interesting be a good word??? And my side of the brain really needs to be calm and collected for the next while.

Sam, we all need a break now and then. We'll miss you while you're gone but we won't take it personally and we'll be here when you get back. :heart:I luvs ya'! ! :heart:

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