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17 Aug 2007, 11:55 pm

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Too bad I don't drink... :)


I have a bottle of vodka in the cupboard that I use for making acne-control soap for my sons. It calls my name at least once a week but I am certain that if I have just one drink, I may never, ever stop. :wink:


:wink: I did that, Nan. I drank my first drink and I never stopped until I took my last. When I get poison oak or ivy, I know I can't start scratching or I will not stop untili am scraped and bleeding and still find no satisfaction . Same with alcohol. : nods: unhuh.. I avoid it completely, I can't handle it.

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17 Aug 2007, 11:57 pm

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He decided to get out of Kenny mode when I got out the camera. Sometimes he's a Shi'ite, sometimes he's a Sunni, and most of the time he'd rather not have his photo taken.

You ARE Boadicea! Go me!!

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We all have our own ways of seeking attention and approval. Dazzle 'em with brilliance, baffle 'em with bullsh*t, leap about roaring loudly while pounding one's chest, or (my personal favourite) stand on head and wave feet in the air yelling "Lookit me, lookit me, lookit me!"


Not only am I too weird to be in any clique, but sometimes I wonder if you lot will kick me out of the Dinosaurs' Cave for excessive... err... youthfulness.


My car tags are YTY 233 and the woman that cuts my hair says it is for "Your're Too Youthful"

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18 Aug 2007, 12:09 am

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He decided to get out of Kenny mode when I got out the camera. Sometimes he's a Shi'ite, sometimes he's a Sunni, and most of the time he'd rather not have his photo taken.

You ARE Boadicea! Go me!!

From another post of mine last June:
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We all have our own ways of seeking attention and approval. Dazzle 'em with brilliance, baffle 'em with bullsh*t, leap about roaring loudly while pounding one's chest, or (my personal favourite) stand on head and wave feet in the air yelling "Lookit me, lookit me, lookit me!"


Not only am I too weird to be in any clique, but sometimes I wonder if you lot will kick me out of the Dinosaurs' Cave for excessive... err... youthfulness.


My car tags are YTY 233 and the woman that cuts my hair says it is for "Your're Too Youthful"

Merle


Ya but you're the one when greating folks and use the "....I'm pushing 60..." I really don't always hate being the barer of bad news, but...you keep pushin, you're never going to get to it. (Think carrot on a stick.)


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18 Aug 2007, 12:14 am

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We have built a community here, haven't we? An aspie type community is a wonderful place, warm and gentle and non judgmental.

And to those who don't post often, we embrace you too, though we won't physically touch you. Well, I might!. There are no cliques here. Come and sit by the fire and Chuck will melt marshmellows for you. I forgot - it's summer where you are. Chuck will give you fruity ice blocks.


I am in the fruity ice blocks section of the earth ! ! I want my fruity ice block, Chuck!

however last week when I barbequed chicken (oooooooh, my specialty!) I did toast some marshmellows after , never being patient I had to snatch it off the shihkabob skewers just at the first hint of toasted brown.

When I can remember the people here from one day to the next I come back because they know me. I used to get emails that brought me back to the community here, but the less I posted, the more I forgot to come back, Nan.

thanks for the fruity ice blocks, Chuck. It is a fine summer night.

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18 Aug 2007, 12:16 am

You know how there's always these "Is it an Aspie thing to [insert trait or characteristic here]???" threads in the General Discussion board? Seems like it's been ages since there's been an "Is it an Aspie thing to totally not act your age???" thread, maybe somebody should go start one. Won't be me, I'd get blowtorched: "Yeah, yeah, we already know about YOU."



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18 Aug 2007, 12:41 am

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sinsboldly wrote:
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He decided to get out of Kenny mode when I got out the camera. Sometimes he's a Shi'ite, sometimes he's a Sunni, and most of the time he'd rather not have his photo taken.

You ARE Boadicea! Go me!!

From another post of mine last June:
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We all have our own ways of seeking attention and approval. Dazzle 'em with brilliance, baffle 'em with bullsh*t, leap about roaring loudly while pounding one's chest, or (my personal favourite) stand on head and wave feet in the air yelling "Lookit me, lookit me, lookit me!"


Not only am I too weird to be in any clique, but sometimes I wonder if you lot will kick me out of the Dinosaurs' Cave for excessive... err... youthfulness.


My car tags are YTY 233 and the woman that cuts my hair says it is for "Your're Too Youthful"

Merle


Ya but you're the one when greating folks that and use the "....I'm pushing 60..." I really don't always hate being the barer of bad news, but...you keep pushin, you're never going to get to it. (Think carrot on a stick.)


yeah, I greet folks, especially young folks, with my age on a badge. I got really chewed out by an Aspie right here on this talker that did not appreciate me hanging out with them when he found out I was 'old'. He got real mad at me cause he felt I wasn't being honest by not telling people around me I was old.

So now I "announce" so I don't offend. I could care less about age, I never grew up anyway. Sometimes I don't believe it myself I am going on 60, but I guess others do.

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18 Aug 2007, 12:46 am

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yeah, I greet folks, especially young folks, with my age on a badge. I got really chewed out by an Aspie right here on this talker that did not appreciate me hanging out with them when he found out I was 'old'. He got real mad at me cause he felt I wasn't being honest by not telling people around me I was old.

So now I "announce" so I don't offend. I could care less about age, I never grew up anyway. Sometimes I don't believe it myself I am going on 60, but I guess others do.

Merle


Well just for that person I would suggets using "I'm pushing 69"


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18 Aug 2007, 1:19 am

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nannarob wrote:
We have built a community here, haven't we? An aspie type community is a wonderful place, warm and gentle and non judgmental.

And to those who don't post often, we embrace you too, though we won't physically touch you. Well, I might!. There are no cliques here. Come and sit by the fire and Chuck will melt marshmellows for you. I forgot - it's summer where you are. Chuck will give you fruity ice blocks.


I am in the fruity ice blocks section of the earth ! ! I want my fruity ice block, Chuck!

however last week when I barbequed chicken (oooooooh, my specialty!) I did toast some marshmellows after , never being patient I had to snatch it off the shihkabob skewers just at the first hint of toasted brown.

When I can remember the people here from one day to the next I come back because they know me. I used to get emails that brought me back to the community here, but the less I posted, the more I forgot to come back, Nan.

thanks for the fruity ice blocks, Chuck. It is a fine summer night.

Merle


I think Chuck got tired of looking for things and crashed on us. OR maybe he lost Chuck!!

I get sad when I think that you don't come here as much as you once did. Yours were the first posts that caught my eye when I started, and the ones I could relate to most. The only difference is that you have gone where I have only thought about going and I admire that. Please, don't wander away for too long,

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18 Aug 2007, 1:59 am

oh, I embrace your neck like a chubby child sticky with watermelon juice and a face smeared with melty marshmellows

I love you too, Lauri. . .

that lady that went psycho on you a couple of weeks ago? I felt sorry for her and later she went off on me, just so wreched she could have made me feel for just wanting her to not feel so alone. :roll: and I got burned. . .



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18 Aug 2007, 5:23 am

hi it's my first post in the cafe, kinda nervous, been reading it all for days through and figure this is proably where i should be i'm 44 on aug 30th and after i read someone young got mad sorta about the age disclousure thing??did i read that right?? anyway have an autistic daughter she's 6 and my biggest joy in life, all her therapists kept saying i was a little aspie, took 2 of the online tests 44 out of 50 one one and 155 outta 200 on the other i think it was. I'm still a little freaked out by it but kinda allready knew deep down, it all makes perfect sense now that i'v read some of your posts. I live a kind of isolated life so this is really nice for me to sorta interact w/ others. I work and all but other than that i stay to myself alot ...don't want to bore you w/ my first post Instead of "talk your ears off," if i'm not careful" i'll type your eyes out". please feel free to pm me, i'v found out that i like to have mail when i come home from work. it's kinda nice. look forward to getting to know you all better.


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18 Aug 2007, 6:50 am

Hi Reika (no relation to Leika in Lexx, I guess),

Always nice to have another mind in the mix.

Not that it's that close to you, I guess, but I watched the "Deadliest Catch" stuff, out of Dutch Harbour. Seeing that you're in that segment of the globe, I looked that up with Google Earth. Worst alignment of road maps with imagery I've seen yet - up to 300 yards off! That's... a one in thirty thousand error, versus the radius of the earth. Unacceptable.

Had a peer at Achorage... I gather half the population of Alaska live there. Do they all fit in the "Red Robin Gourmet Burgers"? (Sorry - I couldn't resist that!)

Also, don't forget to watch for that lunar eclipse on the 28th. Unlike here (no eclipse at all) and most of the rest of the Americas (not very spectacular), you should have the full business.

http://science.nasa.gov/headlines/y2007/images/dreamyeclipse/LE2007Aug28-Fig3.GIF

I may or may not have my sums right, but where you are it should be a red moon from 11pm to 2am, I think.

Nan's pointer to http://spaceweather.com gives the animation, but Merle's link was a slightly broken Cat.

Oh... and PS to Nan - what was the first painting you posted... I can't make my brain remember names and places, often, and the Getty doesn't seem to think it's got the thing at all! (And isn't it wierd - the image you posted for the Folies, on Wikipedia, there's a "red" version and the Getty itself shows a dull/black one.


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18 Aug 2007, 7:37 am

OOOOh! <<<shivers>>> What a restless night! Woke up freezing to death, until I got Antarctica carpeted back up. Just settled in and dozed off when I awoke to a knock at the door: a small meat pudding practicing ballet steps!

"Can't a man sleep without all this distraction!", I cried, stomping off into my sacred woods. Whereupon visions of red moons to come danced in my head, to the tune of drunk owls.

But while I slept Postie returned Merle and Nan, and somebody new named reika, so all is good.

And Carol is back! :D (I thought you were cast to Valhalla!)



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18 Aug 2007, 8:09 am

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i took a mental health day off and drove to LA to the getty, where i saw

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I have always loved this picture. I used to think her a bored woman standing off by herself serving alcohol to a throng of aristocrats. Now I see that she is Aspie, and lost deep in thought. The twinkling lights of the chandelier have entranced her. Probably miles away, even though at work, thinking of sun spots and nuclear fusion. Unaware that there is a man standing directly in front of her, according to the reflection in the mirror. Unaware of everything going on around her. Just her and her thoughts, which, unfortunately, we don't get to see.



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And Carol is back! Very Happy (I thought you were cast to Valhalla!)


Are you talkin' to me?

Yeah, I'm back. All 540 doors were locked and some Rooster told me to come back later. In about 40 years or so.



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i took a mental health day off and drove to LA to the getty, where i saw

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I have always loved this picture. I used to think her a bored woman standing off by herself serving alcohol to a throng of aristocrats. Now I see that she is Aspie, and lost deep in thought. The twinkling lights of the chandelier have entranced her. Probably miles away, even though at work, thinking of sun spots and nuclear fusion. Unaware that there is a man standing directly in front of her, according to the reflection in the mirror. Unaware of everything going on around her. Just her and her thoughts, which, unfortunately, we don't get to see.


Completely different take on it. Such is the power of art. Check out the upper left hand corner, see the feet on the swing? The reflection looks wrong to me for a mirror. But then when I've looked at this before, I never saw the other behind her or the man in front of her ( well I did, but didn't really registor as important). The rest of what I see is just me and what I think, well the first part of this was too. Again, the power of art. No need to use those horrid words like, I, you, me, they. (slight problem wihth a poem and I'm not able to get around them. Minor rant there. Got to figure out another way.)


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18 Aug 2007, 9:02 am

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But while I slept Postie returned Merle and Nan, and somebody new named reika, so all is good.


Huh? I did? Well then....They followed me home. They won't eat much honest, can I keep em? I'll take care of them I promise.


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