Shy/Anxious newbie who talks too much :P

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This reminds me of tabling at political event and of working at H&R Block. You have a medium interaction with a real live person. It matters. I put energy into it. I notice what works and what doesn't and I adjust.

In fact, the only fly in the ointment, some co-workers think I am too focused on the customer, I think sometimes jealous that I do well with the customer. Generally, just let this be, let them be jealous, give them the space to be whatever they need to be. Sometimes, in a light way, after a customer leaves, pull a co-worker into an interesting part about the coversation with the customer at the end, in a respectful way.

All in all, I try and have a light touch. And often it works. I think this is the middle, most probable to work approach, and then I can make adjustments from there.


PS And I'm glad you have interesting friends from earlier school times, and I'm glad they find 'different' people interesting and worth getting to know.

It's not from the same place, but I do have a link for where you can get a good one from. I actually had a friend talk to a live representative for me, because I was too afraid to talk to them myself (for some reason).

http://www.especialneeds.com/velvasoft- ... -vest.html

I've been looking up the difference between a weighted and a pressure vest, and pressure is something you can keep on as long as you want, vs weighted where you can only wear it 10-20 mins per hour before the body become adjusted to it.

Thank you.

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