AmyGravino wrote:
First of all, thank you to everyone who left comments about my video. I very much appreciate it.
I made a new rant recently, in "honor" of Valentine's Day. Here it is:
I'm fortunate that I found a group of misfits to hang around with in high school. I dated one for 5 years, we broke up (mutual decision and we're all still friends) and started dating another of them and eventually married him. My husband doesn't really celebrate Valentines Day. It's kind of a non-event around here and I think it's a crock too. I mean February is so NUTS in my house ANYWAY that I've come to HATE Valentines day. Both of my kids' schools have valentines parties. Alex's school is 30 minutes from my daughter's school. I'm expected to attend. Both parties are on the same day at the same time. So I drive from my house to Alex's school a bit too early for the party and then leave about 20 minutes after that party started then show up really late for my daughter's party (her name is Rayleigh and points to anyone who can guess the origins of the name). My daughter is okay with me being late because then she gets to ride home with me instead of taking the bus. So my valentines day is INSANE to say the least. I do have some really pretty flowers my hubby bought for my birthday and still have a gift to come once we get our income tax refund!!
Then for the rest of the month. I turned 45 last thursday 2/8. My son will turn 10 next Friday and my daughter is a leap day baby so for the sake of argument she'll be 7 on 3/1 (count 365 days from last time). Actually, we let her choose if it's going to be 3/1 or 2/28. There's too much going on in February. We generally have a party for both the kids at the same time. They seem fine with that. So this week I'm having to make my kids write valentines for every kid in their classes. Nobody can be left out. I'd prefer not doing it at all!! !!
Those dating services are annoying. I'm sad, though, when I learn of aspies who really want relationships and can't find them. I am married to an aspie guy and, though it isn't always easy, what relationship IS?! If anything, I think aspies are often easier to understand once you figure out their triggers and anxieties and logic than "typical" folks. My husband is very rigid about some things. I think I NEEDED that rigidity since I grew up in a very unstable situation. I don't LIKE that he gets wigged about the house being messy, but I DO like that he prefers coming home to his family to anything else. He doesn't LIKE to go out after work. He gets sad when he doesn't spend enough time with us. He calls me from work every day just to talk and we've been married for almost 19 years. I've KNOWN him for nearly 30 YEARS!! !
Miriam