Can somebody please help me?
VelvetRose
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Joined: 29 Feb 2016
Gender: Female
Posts: 24
Location: Wallington, Greater London
VelvetRose
Hummingbird
Joined: 29 Feb 2016
Gender: Female
Posts: 24
Location: Wallington, Greater London
bobobobo wrote:
Read About autism, asperger and woman. Read all sites about this topic. Watch video's, get all information there is. Than go for à 2nd opinion. To Someone with lots of experience with woman and ASD.
I am woman, over 50 and recently diagnosed
I am woman, over 50 and recently diagnosed
Hi bobobobo,
Thanks for your advice, I will definitely keep reading about women on the spectrum as my last appointment in which I will be given a report about the decision to either give me a diagnosis or not, will be in a couple of week's time. So I think it will be helpful to further expand my knowledge on Autism and Asperger's. If they decide that I'm not on the spectrum and I don't believe that the reasons given are adequate for thinking so, then I shall pursue a second opinion.
How do you feel about being diagnosed?
VelvetRose
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Joined: 29 Feb 2016
Gender: Female
Posts: 24
Location: Wallington, Greater London
shandroid wrote:
While I can't exactly offer advice to you, I hope I can offer you comfort in knowing that you're absolutely not alone. When I read your account of events, it sounds like I could've easily written it myself. I have been misdiagnosed several times, generally in the vein of "manic depression" or severe anxiety disorders. Three separate physicians tried to prescribe me Lithium, among other drugs. I have been off any kind of medication for approximately 5 years. Through my own research and interaction with others, it became quite clear that I was on the spectrum. When I found others like me, it's as if everything that never made sense became crystal clear. I found this forum years ago, but I didn't join until 7 months ago - and it has taken me that long to post. In fact, today I started posting for the first time.
It isn't easy. It won't ever be easy. But I can promise you that the mere existence of communicating with others on a forum like this will make you feel much less isolated and alone.
It isn't easy. It won't ever be easy. But I can promise you that the mere existence of communicating with others on a forum like this will make you feel much less isolated and alone.
Hi shandroid,
The reassurance and comfort of knowing that there are others out there who struggle and I can relate to because of our difficulties means just as much to me as receiving advice, so I appreciate your post. It's upsetting to know that you've had to go through similar experiences as I have certainly found a lot of situations in life very tough and feel that that it's very unfair for others to go through similar hardships that are sometimes even worse. I really hope you're feeling somewhat better now you're not on any medication. It is fascinating to read about, it certainly brings some relief when finding out that there is an explanation for our weaknesses (and maybe strengths also) that have isolated us our whole lives. I'm glad that you have joined as I'm sure that you have a lot to contribute to this forum. I think that finding this forum has stopped me from giving up altogether.
