Who do you like?

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I'm a straight female. Aesthetically and emotionally attracted to guys, but asexual, so I call myself heterosocial.

Sexual orientation? I do like that thick black hair, and those dark eyes, and the delicate subtle shape of the features, plus they're all astronomers and physicists and graceful martial artists and ballet dancers and concert violinists...well, most of them anyway.

Then again there's...for me it's most anybody except blonds. They always make me think somebody put too much bleach in the washing machine.

I would be a straight male, but it's been so long it's kinda like a horse claiming to be an eohippus.

Sort of a monk without the spiritual part.

Similar to me, but I'd say I feel intellectually and emotionally (and maybe aesthetically too) attracted to men. Leaving out the sexual.

so asexual means you dont enjoy the act of love making, or are you too shy to initiate and cultivat a sexual relationship?

Never tried the act in itself, but I don't feel a desire for it when I look at someone I find attractive (intellectually or visually).

yeah ok, me neither..i dont lok at every woman and think yeah right here right now....but i do get stirrigns when i do see an attractive woman...ok i wont go any further, i think it is fascinating to be able to be attracted to someone aesthetically but not any further.....

Being asexual for me means I simply have no sexual urges, period. I never feel that I want sex. No matter how much I adore someone, I would never feel a desire to sleep with them - the idea just produces a puzzled/slightly icky feeling of, "Why would I want to do *that*?" If I was to have a relationship with a guy, simply being able to spend time with him and close to him would be a hundred percent satisfying for me. A hug would be my equivalent of sex.

I can appreciate that people might say, "Well, how do you know whether you're straight/gay/bi if you don't want sex with *anyone*?" but there's still some kind of defining attraction. I can look at another woman and appreciate that she's beautiful, but it's like looking at a statue or a painting - the feeling's not there that I get for a man.

ok thanks for that, i dont want to continue with this thread anymore please, it is fascinating, bu i dont want it to be hijacked by....morons..thansk this i s fascinating....i didnt know any one could feel this way.