The Dino-Aspie Ex-Café (for Those 40+... or feeling creaky)
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how utterly frustrating!
Merle
yes, it says "stop watching this topic"
so it hasn't slipped off that track
Merle
To quote the wise one, Merle:
"Well, that bites!"
I guess Alex has his hands full just dealing with school and trying to keep the hackers at bay. I don't think I've ever put the "notify me" button on, I've just assumed I'd need to check in now and then. Actually, I'd forgotten there even WAS a notify me button. Well, duh!
How is Merle doing tonight? Is the comma-cidal slave driver working you hard?
It's the silence when I don't contribute a new story to the pile. Gawd that woman can read, more and more, she pants. . give me mooooooore. . .
(by the way, I found out the 'hacking' Alex is not too worried about is how to get around the school firewall to get to the porn sites, not how to hack into someone's server and do mischief! The poor saps don't even know they can't do it with the info they have. )
So don't worry too much. Nan... whos's name is not Nan, but some sort of anachronism for her real name. . .
Merle who feels like she would like to know how it is to be on unemployment insurance for about 18 months.
Merle who feels like she would like to know how it is to be on unemployment insurance for about 18 months.
Ohyeah. I know that one. I think I'd rather go with winning the lottery, though, as unemployment pay won't even make the mortgage payment and I can't get this place sold. The market is not only dead, there's flies everywhere....
Funny about the slave driver. She asked for stuff. When I didn't produce any I got nagged. So I gave her about 20 pages worth. Teach her! She's going to have to hack and cut like crazy, now. Muahahahah.
It will be interesting to see - I hope we get to see what everyone wrote before the knife is applied to it, really.
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Merle who feels like she would like to know how it is to be on unemployment insurance for about 18 months.
Ohyeah. I know that one. I think I'd rather go with winning the lottery, though, as unemployment pay won't even make the mortgage payment and I can't get this place sold. The market is not only dead, there's flies everywhere....
Funny about the slave driver. She asked for stuff. When I didn't produce any I got nagged. So I gave her about 20 pages worth. Teach her! She's going to have to hack and cut like crazy, now. Muahahahah.
It will be interesting to see - I hope we get to see what everyone wrote before the knife is applied to it, really.
I see the red flags are out for more Santa Anas. I see those warnings now, sensitized to it from your earlier adventures.
Merle
Ohyeah. I know that one. I think I'd rather go with winning the lottery, though, as unemployment pay won't even make the mortgage payment and I can't get this place sold. The market is not only dead, there's flies everywhere....
I see the red flags are out for more Santa Anas. I see those warnings now, sensitized to it from your earlier adventures.
Merle
Yeah, they are, Merle. They are due in at literally any time now - I'm waiting here in the back bedroom to hear the wind. The competing weathermen are arguing about how bad they'll be or not. They all generally agree they won't be what they were saying as of last week what they were going to be (as in, worse than when we were on fire). Or that, if they are, it will be the poor sots north of us who catch it. It's supposed to be primarily up in Riverside County and LA now. Unless they changed the forecast again. I can't keep track, they keep changing it!
The kid has her friends over, they're watching Harry Potter. I'm into the zinfandel and listening to KLOS - Los Ahn-ja-leeeze - on the radio (sometimes we can get that station, when the atmospherics are right). It's all a bit surreal tonight.
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Nan has been a paragon of strength in the Parents' Discussion! And Nan? If you ARE having a lovely time there, so much the better! You have spoken previously about The Kid's medical issues. I'm sure you've also spoken of her education issues. But now I put it all together, and that's one helluva row you've had to hoe. Hats off to you too!
Day after tomorrow I have my first-ever appointment with a real honest-to-goodness psychiatrist. I'm a bit nervous. I've cobbled together about four pages' worth of autobiographical material to hand to him along with my GP's referral letter. Haven't got a clue what to expect.
As long as he doesn't call me "sir", I suppose it can't go too badly. ![]()
As long as he doesn't call me "sir", I suppose it can't go too badly.
Practice giving 'em "the stinkeye" in the mirror, in case he does! I got a free soda at the drive through today that way.
PS Good luck with the shrink. I hope it's a good one.
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how utterly frustrating!
Merle
That happens to me all the time, Merle! Whether or not I post. Don't know what's up with that. I just have to remember to stop here on my meanderings.
Feeling a bit disoriented. My brother, who is just one year older than me, (practically my twin) called, and we spent nearly two hours on the phone, indulging in family history, complete with Aspie humor and a huge laugh fest. l needed that. He is thinking of taking my father home after his discharge, but I won't hold my breath. My brother has a big heart, but rarely is able to follow through, because he promises so many things to so many people. It's a relief to have someone else go to bat for my father, since I can't do much here in Florida, and he's in the same city and state.
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And Mae West.
Ah, he rolls well. Nope.
We've tried it once or twice
And found it rather nice
Chorus:
Roll me over lay me down and do it again
Roll me over in the clover, roll me over lay me down and do it again
Oh this is number one
And the fun has just begun
Oh this is number two,
Down in front he's comin through
Oh this is number three
And his hand is on me knee
Oh this is number four
And he's been there twice before
Oh this is number five
I'm surprised I'm still alive
Oh this is number six,
And he's got me doin tricks
Well this is number seven,
And he took me straight to heaven
Oh this is number eight,
He bent me o'er the garden gate
Oh this is number nine,
And the baby's doin fine
Oh this is number ten,
And when he's through we'll do it again
Oh this is number eleven
and it's just like number seven
Dolly got nuthin on Mae. Dolly is an innocent bystander when it comes to that West woman. Where ya think that statement "go West young man" comes from? Sage advice. I know she's still alive and just as "Mae" as ever, she'll never die and never age. Bet she makes a mean cup of coffee too. Although in her case I'd make her coffee and be her sex puppet. But, that Harlow woman did somethin for me too. Any lady that uses ice cubes to get that erect look to nipples before doing an acting scene is ok in my book. They just don't make em like they use to, they really don't. Now we get Paris Hilton, gawd!! !
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Oh ya! I sure do. I don't know if anyone else does, though!
Oh, please do!
Sorry, can't do that. Knowledge is power, isn't it Gromit??
So it is, O Blessed One! What would you like me to do after the washing up and clearing out the yard? To hear is to obey!

Day after tomorrow I have my first-ever appointment with a real honest-to-goodness psychiatrist. I'm a bit nervous. I've cobbled together about four pages' worth of autobiographical material to hand to him along with my GP's referral letter. Haven't got a clue what to expect.
As long as he doesn't call me "sir", I suppose it can't go too badly.
Yes, she has. And I am one of her biggest admirers. She also has far more patience and more debate skills than I will ever have. The reason I don't go to the parents forum is because things never just are the way they are, good or bad. There is always someone there that has to challenge the other's parenting skills. Any sage, sound, proven but not Dr. recommended advice is pushed aside very quickly. I've also noticed that any "brag about your child" or "listen to what my child accomplished" threads quickly sink to be replaced by "poor me/my poor kid" threads.
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Day after tomorrow I have my first-ever appointment with a real honest-to-goodness psychiatrist. I'm a bit nervous. I've cobbled together about four pages' worth of autobiographical material to hand to him along with my GP's referral letter. Haven't got a clue what to expect.
As long as he doesn't call me "sir", I suppose it can't go too badly.
Yes, she has. And I am one of her biggest admirers. She also has far more patience and more debate skills than I will ever have. The reason I don't go to the parents forum is because things never just are the way they are, good or bad. There is always someone there that has to challenge the other's parenting skills. Any sage, sound, proven but not Dr. recommended advice is pushed aside very quickly. I've also noticed that any "brag about your child" or "listen to what my child accomplished" threads quickly sink to be replaced by "poor me/my poor kid" threads.
I can't go to the Parent's Discussion. I am not a parent, I have only had parents. I did go there a few times and frankly they frighten me. I thought they would be interested in talking to an adult Aspie about how it felt to grow up and see it from the kid's eye view. Not interested - it was all me, me, me, how I am inconvenienced, how I have a life no one bargained for, how I have to suffer while little Janie or Johnnie runs the house with meltdowns because they don't like greenbeans arranged on a plate like they serve it.
and I have sad news for those who think Mae West is still extant. She passed in 1980, but of course she is immortal in her own way.
Fires in Malibu. . well, that is good news, for I doubt if our Nan lives in Malibu, eh Nan?
sleepy, woke up early, hoping to write more today.
Merle
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oh
so NOW you talk about your election! I pestered you on Skype to talk about it just the other day and you stonewalled me every time I asked!
I am so glad John Howard lost, as he was such a supporter of the Shrubbery! Isn't it interesting how all the movements that wanted to change the world forever ( Third Reich comes to mind) that does not even last (as viable) the lifetime of the perpetrator?
Merle
And Mae West.
Ah, he rolls well. Nope.
We've tried it once or twice
And found it rather nice
Chorus:
Roll me over lay me down and do it again
Roll me over in the clover, roll me over lay me down and do it again
Oh this is number one
And the fun has just begun
Oh this is number two,
Down in front he's comin through
Oh this is number three
And his hand is on me knee
Oh this is number four
And he's been there twice before
Oh this is number five
I'm surprised I'm still alive
Oh this is number six,
And he's got me doin tricks
Well this is number seven,
And he took me straight to heaven
Oh this is number eight,
He bent me o'er the garden gate
Oh this is number nine,
And the baby's doin fine
Oh this is number ten,
And when he's through we'll do it again
Oh this is number eleven
and it's just like number seven
Dolly got nuthin on Mae. Dolly is an innocent bystander when it comes to that West woman. Where ya think that statement "go West young man" comes from? Sage advice. I know she's still alive and just as "Mae" as ever, she'll never die and never age. Bet she makes a mean cup of coffee too. Although in her case I'd make her coffee and be her sex puppet. But, that Harlow woman did somethin for me too. Any lady that uses ice cubes to get that erect look to nipples before doing an acting scene is ok in my book. They just don't make em like they use to, they really don't. Now we get Paris Hilton, gawd!! !
