Hey Caity,
Welcome to Wrongplanet from another UK member
Diagnosis is never really too late, you can still be able to, I would strongly recommend you see a GP or something, from what I remember because with me, its been a long time ago...
What they do is talk talk and talk about issues you maybe going through and they could refer you to another place, in my case, I was referred to Maudsley which I went there to get my diagnosis there, it took a couple of appointments to point out I have autism and I was abit "crazy" as people would call it, I even tried to electrocute myself at some point but didn't realise, that's when the teacher spotted something not right.
I even got transferred to another school.
But in your case, your most likely to still be in your current school since by the sounds of it, you might be coping well in there.
And good luck on your quest on that.
- superboyian
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