Page 1 of 1 [ 11 posts ] 

nancydrew
Emu Egg
Emu Egg

User avatar

Joined: 27 Feb 2010
Age: 40
Gender: Female
Posts: 8
Location: Tennessee, USA

28 Feb 2010, 3:34 pm

Hello, I'm Jordan and I'm a girl. I have enjoyed reading the posts on Wrong Planet for some time now, and have decided to join. I am about 85% certain that I have Asperger's syndrome. Especially after taking some eye and face reading tests, AQ and empathy tests. The results of which shocked me. I didn't know that I couldn't read people's faces, but now I have been thinking about all the interactions I have had with other people, and how I couldn't understand them or I misinterpreted them and they got mad with me. Something has always been off socially, but I always thought that everyone else was weird. I spend so much time trying to understand other people, and determine why they act in the way they do. It can be very frustrating and exhausting.

For my whole life I have been a student, and performed very well in school. But now I am 23, and no longer a student. It has been difficult to adapt to normal adult things, like having a job. My possible Asperger's syndrome is getting in the way of more things than ever before.

I don't know what number to call yet to speak to a doctor, but soon I will pursue a diagnosis. I think next week I will talk to a doctor.

Does anyone have advice for this situation? I am unsure about talking to a psychiatrist and what it is like.



Tim_Tex
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 2 Jul 2004
Age: 46
Gender: Male
Posts: 46,682
Location: Houston, Texas

28 Feb 2010, 3:35 pm

Welcome to WP!


_________________
Who’s better at math than a robot? They’re made of math!


Willard
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 23 Mar 2008
Age: 67
Gender: Male
Posts: 5,647

28 Feb 2010, 5:30 pm

nancydrew wrote:
I think next week I will talk to a doctor.

Does anyone have advice for this situation?



Welcome aboard, ND. Need more information on your situation. Do you live alone, or with family? Employed? Full or PT?



nancydrew
Emu Egg
Emu Egg

User avatar

Joined: 27 Feb 2010
Age: 40
Gender: Female
Posts: 8
Location: Tennessee, USA

28 Feb 2010, 5:58 pm

Quote:
Welcome aboard, ND. Need more information on your situation. Do you live alone, or with family? Employed? Full or PT?


Thank you. I live with my boyfriend. I am not employed now. But I have health insurance. I don't live near any family right now.



richie
Supporting Member
Supporting Member

User avatar

Joined: 9 Jan 2007
Age: 67
Gender: Male
Posts: 30,142
Location: Lake Whoop-Dee-Doo, Pennsylvania

28 Feb 2010, 6:07 pm

Image
To WrongPlanet!! !Image


_________________
Life! Liberty!...and Perseveration!!.....
Weiner's Law of Libraries: There are no answers, only cross references.....
My Blog: http://richiesroom.wordpress.com/


Willard
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 23 Mar 2008
Age: 67
Gender: Male
Posts: 5,647

28 Feb 2010, 6:20 pm

nancydrew wrote:
Quote:
Welcome aboard, ND. Need more information on your situation. Do you live alone, or with family? Employed? Full or PT?


Thank you. I live with my boyfriend. I am not employed now. But I have health insurance. I don't live near any family right now.



Hmm. Not sure how that will affect you. I don't know whether insurance covers things like an AS diagnosis. Someone else may be more experienced in that arena.

I was destitute and unemployed and went to a Not-for-Profit clinic to get DXd for depression, in order to qualify for a Career Retraining program for the disabled. Asked about being evaluated for AS while undergoing that process, so it didn't cost me a cent.



Jpeg
Sea Gull
Sea Gull

User avatar

Joined: 24 Nov 2009
Age: 33
Gender: Male
Posts: 235
Location: Missouri

28 Feb 2010, 8:07 pm

Welcome to WrongPlanet!


_________________
"All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us"


CockneyRebel
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 17 Jul 2004
Age: 51
Gender: Male
Posts: 121,130
Location: In my own little country

28 Feb 2010, 8:45 pm

Welcome to WrongPlanet. :)


_________________
The Family Schlager


Brandon-J
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 11 Mar 2008
Age: 37
Gender: Male
Posts: 669
Location: North Carolina, USA

28 Feb 2010, 9:52 pm

Welcome to the website well my best advice is you understand who you are and be the best person that you can be. Life can be hard after school and im learning myself. Just hand in there and don't be afraid to ask for help.


_________________
My first youtube video of myself
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-KNGwLccs5M

"If you feed your faith your fears will starve to death"

http://www.youtube.com/user/BrandonJ280


happymusic
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 10 Feb 2010
Age: 51
Gender: Female
Posts: 3,165
Location: still in ninja land

28 Feb 2010, 10:08 pm

Welcome to WP. And I agree, life can be hard after school because a certain structure is removed. It took me a little while to realize I was in a psychological free fall. I wish I had known then to get help right away. It took me about 8 years to do it. At least you realize it now, early on - that's a good thing. Don't get too down, you're doing something about it - good job :)



Scientist
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 6 Nov 2009
Age: 50
Gender: Non-binary
Posts: 1,524
Location: The Netherlands

01 Mar 2010, 3:12 am

Hello Jordan, welcome, enjoy your stay on the Wrong Planet!


_________________
1975, ASD: Asperger's Syndrome (diagnosed: October 22, 2009)

Interests: science, experimental psychology, psychophysics, music (listening and playing (guitar)) and visual arts

Don't focus on your weaknesses, focus on your strengths