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limnephilidae
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28 Jan 2011, 3:43 pm

I'll keep this very brief for now. Perhaps I'll type up something more substantial later.

I am a male in my early 30's who somehow made through a difficult childhood. I have Aspergers but I feel as if I have adapted quite well. I have a successful career, a long-term relationship, a home, and even a dog. I have joined this forum as I was only recently diagnosed with Aspergers though I have had it my whole life (of course). I am hoping to glean a different perspective into myself and my "situation" by interacting with the rest of you and learning a bit more about your coping strategies.

I really can't complain about my life or the cards I've been dealt. I don't really want any sympathy (and I doubt the rest of you do either), just a better understanding of what we face.

Thanks for taking the time to read this.

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28 Jan 2011, 3:56 pm

Welcome. Reading your post sounds like I could have written it myself. Just a little warning, we are in the minority here :)



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28 Jan 2011, 3:58 pm

Hi, sounds like we have similar stories :)



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28 Jan 2011, 10:06 pm

Hello, limnephilidae - and welcome aboard greetings to the WP.


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28 Jan 2011, 11:29 pm

Welcome :)



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28 Jan 2011, 11:36 pm

Hello and welcome. As I post in most threads, CBT has helped me more than any other self-help strategy, so I strongly recommend it.



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29 Jan 2011, 1:27 am

Welcome to WP!


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29 Jan 2011, 3:14 am

Hey, when I was in my thirties I'd have said the same. I didn't get a diagnosis until I was in my fifties.

It's easy to see how knowing about it back then would have helped avoid some of the disasters I've been through since then.

Good luck



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29 Jan 2011, 4:12 am

Welcome to WP!


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29 Jan 2011, 7:20 pm

Thanks for the welcome everyone.

And a quick note on CBT Technikilor: I actually went to an on-campus psychiatrist when I was in my second year at University. I had no idea had Asperger's then but I was suffering from social anxiety. There was little focus on the root cause (very very likely Asperger's), and more on the coping methods. CBT was a huge help to me throughout school.



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30 Jan 2011, 9:29 am

Welcome!


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