I'm an NT wife/mom with an AS Husband/young AS son.
Within my husband's family I am the "odd one out". We now think both of his parents are on the ASD. He may have a younger brother that is, too. We don't think his eldest bro is, BUT he has 8 kids...we think 3 or 4 of our nieces/nephews are.
Within my family, LUCKILY no one feels odd or left out.
We have LOTS of animals, as I am an animal lover. Both my husband and son prefer cats to people.
I hope you find what you are looking for here. It seems people are curious, well-informed, and open. I've joined a few other forums for NT partners...so far I have found them all (other than this one) to be negative and closed-minded.