Hello, my family is similar to yours. My wife was diagnosed bipolar about 3 years ago (battle depression all her life). Our son was diagnosed with AS around that same time, he is now 7. myself at age 35 is becoming aware of my aspie traits and consider myself AS. We also has a 6 year old daughtor who has a motor planing disorder. Our family life has been a bit rough. My aspie way of thinking has upset my wife lots of time. Being self aware has been the best for me, but fixing it has been hard. Our son sets the mood of the household. But what ever happens or how hard it gets I am not going give up!