I am a tall slim male aged 45yrs. My hobbies are weightlifting and running. I like to garden and cook and have a small collection of carnivorous plant. I like slapstick comedy. During the last 10yrs I have been reading and trying to understand quantum physics and relativity, the ultimate theory of everything including aspies. I had a good job in the civil service but after the government cuts, had a break down and am now on benefits. My major goal in life is to get a girlfriend, someone in there late twenties or early thirties not to far from Lowestoft. I can't change the fact that I want to meet someone younger but my life experiences have moulded me this way and can't be changed. I have been very depressed because of not being able to meet the right woman.