Welcome, shiny new member! WrongPlanet is a great web site to share, joke, commiserate, complain, and learn more about Asperger's and related conditions, but of course you know that already since you've joined.
When I was in my late thirties a counselor suggested I might have Asperger's syndrome. I did some research and self-diagnosed immediately (it has since been confirmed by two official diagnoses the past ten years). I was delighted that the problems I had were not a curse unique to me, although in other ways it is depressing that others suffer some of the same symptoms. My girlfriend of the time though was crushed because she realized some of our relationship problems were due to my neurology, not due to something like past conditioning that could conceivably be overcome. That was one of the factors in our eventually splitting up.
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"When you ride over sharps, you get flats!"--The Bicycling Guitarist, May 13, 2008