Hi MatildaQ! Welcome to Wrong Planet! Check out the many interesting and helpful forums here. Go into the General Autism forum here. There is at least one post article there with links to online tests for Autism/Asperger's disorders. Take the tests, and save the results in a file. You can print out a copy for your records, and if you ever do go for an evaluation, bring a copy of your test results with you. Also, if you ever go for an evaluation, make sure the psych doc has experience with Autism spectrum disorders. Not all psych docs do.
You are among friends here at WP!
P.S. Thanks RedRobin62 fort he heads up on the insurance angle. I am on Medicaid for other health issues, so it doesn't really apply to me, but there are others here who will benefit from the info.
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