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Grevesy
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01 May 2013, 3:59 pm

Hello everyone, I am Grevesy.
I am a 23 year old asexual from England. Despite having to select either male or female when signing up, I prefer not to be thought of in those terms. When referring to me please use my nickname.
As you can see in my profile I am unsure as to whether I have Asperger's or not. It was brought to my attention by my counsellor who asked if I had been diagnosed. Currently I am being treated for clinical depression and anxiety. I was unaware of what Asperger's really was, and after a lot of research, have concluded that I have many similar traits to those with Asperger's. However I also fit a lot of criteria for Avoidant Personality Disorder. When I asked my GP about it, she said that the tests to find out were very expensive. She also made it clear that it would be a lot of work to diagnose. As a formal diagnosis would have no real impact on my life at the moment I am unsure whether to pursue it. I am also unsure whether I would be welcome posting on the Asperger's/Autism thread without confirmation.

However I feel that I can connect well and understand a lot of others on this site. I have waited and lurked about while giving myself time to think, but the lure of communicating with people who seem to understand me has led to my signing up. Knowing that there are other people out there like me has made me feel much better about myself.

I look forward to speaking with you all. I will not always be a very active participant as I get distracted by other things easily, but I will try my best.

Thank you.



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01 May 2013, 4:10 pm

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Knowing that there are other people out there like me has made me feel much better about myself.


You are welcome here, diagnosed or not :)


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01 May 2013, 4:42 pm

Welcome to Wrong Planet! :)



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01 May 2013, 5:06 pm

Greetings! I hope you like it here! :D


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02 May 2013, 3:03 am

oppositional or avoidant personality traits can be seen in many people on the spectrum so having them doesn't rule out an Autism spectrum Conditon - lots of things like dyspraxia, ADHD, OCD, gender dysphoria, bowel problems, etc run alongside ASCs (they're known as comorbids) but the ASC will always be the core condition if diagnosis is given so if you feel you fit AS then having traits of other things too, or even diagnosis of them, is just part and parcel of it.

Hope you enjoy it here.



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02 May 2013, 5:17 am

Welcome :)


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Grevesy
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02 May 2013, 6:09 am

Thanks everyone, I look forward to interacting with you!


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