I'm 28 and undiagnosed, but after five months of research (websites, blogs, forums, and published books), I almost certain that I have Asperger's. As the next step in my exploration, I want to try to relate my own experiences with others and see how they align before I talk to anyone in my life about this. I've had several different psychiatric diagnoses since I was 17, none of which seemed to explain my difficulties, and only now do I feel like I am finding the answers I've always needed. I do fear being told that I'm imagining all of it, though, so it is important for me to reach out to others on the spectrum before seeking a formal diagnosis, which I've read can be expensive, exhausting, and incredibly difficult for a high functioning adult female to receive.
The issue of diagnosis aside, the idea of having discussions with unique minds with which I might actually be able to relate is kind of exciting. 