Joined: 27 Jan 2007 Gender: Male Posts: 982 Location: Australia
11 Feb 2007, 3:02 pm
Do you all think I look like I'm ret*d?
I don't know why but I sit in positions like that. I find after I take a shower and had just saved, I look better in the mirror. Maybe because my wet hear keeps it from looking all messy, and I dunno wtf is with my face.
Be honest plz.
I never know what looks good or w/e. I used to know a girl who wanted to take me shopping for new clothes and new look and everything, but I didn't want to bother.
Joined: 15 May 2006 Age: 41 Gender: Male Posts: 288 Location: phoenix AZ
11 Feb 2007, 3:41 pm
Well man, ya dont look ret*d per se... You definitly look different than normal though. I mean you need to put into perspective that autism doesnt have a face and anyone can look more normal or less normal. Then again, who's to say what normal looks like? My advice, build your muscle structure with pushups and you'll gain a little more upper body definition. That will fit you in a little better. If you want some advice in that department, send me a pm.
Joined: 13 Jun 2004 Age: 40 Gender: Male Posts: 10,224 Location: Beverly Hills, CA
11 Feb 2007, 3:42 pm
you could get a different haircut and lose the glasses. The glasses you're wearing don't compliment your face and neither does the haircut. People don't realize how easy it is to look good, regardless of the structure of their face.
Joined: 10 Feb 2005 Gender: Male Posts: 722 Location: Alone At The Lunch Table
11 Feb 2007, 4:54 pm
Not ret*d...you just have a little bit of the White And Nerdy thing going there, that's all. I agree with Alex about the glasses and the hair. Getting yourself some Dep will do you a world of difference now, if you can't wait for glasses to transform your look.
Joined: 10 Nov 2006 Age: 32 Gender: Male Posts: 658 Location: IL
11 Feb 2007, 5:28 pm
sitting in that position is just a aspie thing, it sounds alot like a sertain symptom of asperger's, not lack of mental development.
i would change the hairdo if i were you though. that's probably why you think you look better fresh out of the shower.
oh, and you may want to think about some braces.
and you should also get new glasses' frames, either thick red or the kind that don't go around the rest of the way if you ask me
you don't look ret*d, any of the stuff that makes you look that way is not physical, but mental, or the atribute can be changed.
there is nothing you should worry about...
Joined: 8 Feb 2007 Age: 38 Gender: Male Posts: 83 Location: UK
11 Feb 2007, 6:31 pm
The fist picture makes you look slightly erm... nerdy, I guess. But in the second picture, you look fairly normal.
The glasses look ok to me, but that's just my opinion. Only problem I can see is the hair, that's really a major problem in my opinion and if you can do something with that, I'm confident that it could make a world of difference.
Joined: 14 Jan 2007 Age: 41 Gender: Male Posts: 236
12 Feb 2007, 8:25 am
alex wrote:
you could get a different haircut and lose the glasses. The glasses you're wearing don't compliment your face and neither does the haircut. People don't realize how easy it is to look good, regardless of the structure of their face.
I agree. There's way too much poof on the top and the glasses are feminine.
You could use some dental work. If that's how you normally smile, you should try some exercises infront of a mirror. That doesn't look like a very happy expression.
Apart from the hair, you don't look too bad.
I mean my hair is a complete mess, but you should lose the basin cut.
I think the glasses are okay. (Similar to mine).
You can't really go wrong with jeans and T-shirt.
Although i do think your T-shirt is horrible: the bright red & awful logo, but nothing to make you look ret*d.
I would recommend taking your friend up on her offer.
She would give you some excellent advise and you may end up getting laid.