Late last summer, I saw the last third of a show on PBS that had Temple Grandin clips. Many of the things she said applied to me. I don't have internet at home so I checked on occasional trips to the library.
I found a symptoms list. The "repetitive/ritualistic behavior" didn't apply and instead of "formal speach", I would say " exact", "precise", or " literal" instead. Everything else was a direct bullseye.
One of the things I am wondering about are the pros and con's of getting an official diagnosis. I have been on disability for severe psoriatic arthritis since 2002 so job concerns are irrelevant but money is a major concern.