Joined: 7 May 2024 Age: 24 Gender: Female Posts: 56 Location: In Your Dumpster
07 May 2024, 3:09 pm
areallyawesometexan wrote:
I just graduated uni, though at a later age, and am looking forward to move on with my life! Tell me guys about yourselves?
Congrats on graduation! A great achievement no matter what your age is ʕ→ᴥ←ʔ! What was your major in? I graduated in 2020 with a bachelor's in Criminal Justice (I don't use my degree AT ALL).
I am also a noob here, but I think I can still send my welcome to the Wrong Planet!
Joined: 7 Feb 2024 Age: 18 Gender: Male Posts: 393 Location: Wisconsin
07 May 2024, 3:45 pm
Welcome to Wrong Planet! Congratulations on graduating!
_________________ Diagnosed ASD age 5. Finally understood that age 17. Have very strong opinions so sorry if I offend anyone--I still respect your opinion. Feel free to PM me--I like to talk about most things other than sports.
Joined: 30 Jun 2018 Age: 75 Gender: Male Posts: 8,610 Location: Indiana
11 May 2024, 3:10 pm
Howdy and welcome to Wrong Planet.
I sifted through some of your post. Around 60 years ago, I moved to Dallas, Texas. To me it was a great place to grow up in. Not much in your original post, so I looked a little deeper.
In another post you wrote:
At this point, if you are a male living in the west, even if you are physically attractive and have a career, dating and relationships will always be a challenge. If you have ASD, it is a million times worse.
So try to look into improving your social skills, eat and live healthy, have less narrow interests and focus on your immediate environment to improve.
I was never able to make dating/marriage work out. I could never get it to come out right. So around age 25, I took an entirely different approach. I started writing to a girl on the other side of the world. She did not speak any English and I didn't speak her language. But we each found an interpreter and wrote letters to each other for a year. Then I traveled to the other side of the world and after 5 weeks proposed to her. This year we will celebrate our 50 year wedding anniversary.
In another thread, you wrote: Best thing for one to do is use family and friends connections. Or if you are a male with a decent career, learning about new cultures and meeting people long distance is worthwhile. (I hope I won't get censored about this). But improve your social skills and how you can build stronger convos + connections too!
So it sounds like you are going in the right direction. There are many females scattered around the world. Many people are very poor and if you work and have a job, you will be a potential mate, even a very desirable mate for marriage. Just find one that blends in well with your needs and desires.
So this may not work for everyone. But my brother who was a couple years younger then myself, did the same thing.
There are many different people in the world and they live very differently with different standards. So in general if you wish to find a girlfriend and have a wife and make children, this is one approach that works for Aspies. I have 5 grandchildren. They are all marvelous beings.