Very new to this, but LO is undiagnosed Aspie

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aims101
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29 Nov 2014, 12:21 pm

I gave my husband the detailed online quiz (attached) to see if he has Asperger's...which he does. Our son is showing some signs, too. I have done research, and some wives in other forums say to leave the marriage and it's hopeless and destructive from their experience, but I am still optimistic. Even though I've gone through a lot of emotional and verbal abuse. :cry: Feedback please?


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29 Nov 2014, 9:27 pm

Hey aims101 welcome. :sunny:


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29 Nov 2014, 9:33 pm

Hi, thank you! What is your situation with Asperger's? I'm trying to learn as much as I can! :?:



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29 Nov 2014, 9:52 pm

If he is undiagnosed, then how do you know he is an Aspie?

May as well claim that he is an unidentified extraterrestrial.


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08 Dec 2014, 5:27 pm

Welcome to Wrong Planet!


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08 Dec 2014, 6:26 pm

You can't just go by an online test to get a diagnosis. It can be indication but I would get a doctor or a counselor to check him out before you go writing him off on the strength of an internet test. Maybe you could get him to use the forum and it may help him to understand things more by talking to people on here.


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