Bald-Accountant wrote:
Welcome to Wrong Planet.
Sorry to be nosy, but is your spouse neurotypical? Do you have any children?
I am married and my wife is neurotypical, though I fear for her sanity having to deal with all of us Aspies. Everyone else has Apsergers, my 16 year old daughter, my son 12 years old, and may daughters 17 year old boy friend.
It is interesting that you said you want to be understood and to understand yourself. My prayer for people on this site is that they would understand and be understood.
It seems like our biggest challenges often are:
-understanding ourselves
-understanding others
-being understood by others - NT or Aspie
Good luck and welcome
My hub has never taken a test but I am 100% sure that he is NT! Nobody dislikes him, he talks just enough and says just the right things, to everybody! I am jealuz.

I have 3 boys, 23, 11 & 9. I think the 23yo and possibly the 11yo could have some Aspie traits.
P.S. NT (neurotypical) is a synonym for 'normal', right?
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Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 123 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 93 of 200
You seem to have both neurodiverse and neurotypical traits
AQ=38