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12 May 2007, 3:05 am

Hi, I'm Phil. 30-something recently "diagnosed" with AS. I say "diagnosed" because it hasn't actually been confirmed yet - I am to go for the tests when I return to Ireland. My own doc said I "probably" had AS but with the all the research I had done, I probably knew more than he did about it. Ho hum - at least he was honest lol.

I'm from Belfast in Ireland but travelling the world at the minute - recently packed in my job and by coincidence was selling my house around the same time, so now doing what I always wanted to do. A fantastic experience so far, a few tricky situations notwithstanding. I've done pretty ok so far in life - after royally messing up my A-Levels, I managed to carve a career with decent money talking sh*ite in a job where no-one talks back!

This has been in my mind for quite a few years - feeling like a square peg while the world is a round hole - y'know! The wave of relief which has washed over me, as a diagnosis for AS has moved from possible to fairly definite, has been profound. It's like I have finally "found myself"(!), warts and all and can possibly start trying to deal with the issues and difficulties I have had since my very early memories. At the very least - its good to be able to put a name to being diagonally parked across life and not be stuck in a mental loop forever, wondering wtf is "wrong" with me.

I'm so glad to have found this place. A great bunch of people. Have been reading posts for a while now and have found myself saying "YES - I know!" with a lot of the posts. Hope it's ok to stick around! :lol: (!)



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12 May 2007, 3:11 am

Gidday, welcome to WP!!


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12 May 2007, 3:25 am

I am very shy, but hi. If you are a "square peg," then you will stack well in the collective cube here! We are like-minded.


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12 May 2007, 3:26 am

Some pro didn't know a lot about AS? Gosh there's a new one. :wink: Brace yourself there more higher up the chain that think they do, but don't. Doesn't always work that way. In my case I don't care what they say, I know who I am and they don't have time to sit down and listen to a 56 year long story, even if I could remember it :wink: Ok to stick around? I have some tape around one of these areas some place, I'll stick you if you would like. Welcome home.


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12 May 2007, 6:17 am

LabPet wrote:
I am very shy, but hi. If you are a "square peg," then you will stack well in the collective cube here! We are like-minded.

Yay! we are a Borg cube collective!

Welcome P-We to WP - you have been assimilated!


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12 May 2007, 7:53 am

Er hold on a minute - that depends...

A. Have the Borg introduced a smoking ban?
B. Is there a bar on the cube?
C. Will Jeri Ryan be doing anything constructive with all those poles the Borg have around? :D

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Some pro didn't know a lot about AS? Gosh there's a new one. Brace yourself there more higher up the chain that think they do, but don't.


Absolutely. My doc is pretty good actually - but he's a GP not a shrink. I have no problem with him being honest. Like you say I would a lot more worried about some of these so called experts not having a clue and not admitting it!

Doesn't really matter anyway - I'm 99% if not 100% certain in my own mind - so won't stress about it too much. Besides I have found more useful info here in the last few days than I think I will from any health professional.


Thanks y'all - much appreciated.
Phil



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12 May 2007, 9:42 am

Welcome to WP!

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12 May 2007, 3:58 pm

Welcome to WP, your story sounds all too familiar. Glad things are going well and that you found us!


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14 May 2007, 2:03 pm

Hello and welcome aboardv from Canada, P-We.

I just noticed a thread about "Ireland's Aspies";
if what I read from your post is true, I recommend that you
check it out As Soon As Possible.