Hi Bobert & welcome to WP.
There's plenty around here to browse, but feel free to come and join us old fogies in the In-Depth Adult Life Discussion forum. There's threads that focus on being Aspie & married and it's the place that AS parents tend to meet up. The Parents Forum is OK but is often NT parents with AS children, so sometimes the outlook is a little different to that of the AS parent with NT/AS children.
I like SLC though I've only had chance to visit once - we've got a friend who works at BYU and another who lives and works in Provo. 
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