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Ade C
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28 Feb 2020, 1:18 pm

Hi. I'm Ade from the English Midlands. Finding it increasingly difficult and tiresome to relate to the neurotypicals around here so thought I'd see how other oddballs like me interact with each other!



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28 Feb 2020, 1:22 pm

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28 Feb 2020, 3:43 pm

Welcome to WP :D

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28 Feb 2020, 3:59 pm

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28 Feb 2020, 4:21 pm

Ade C wrote:
Hi. I'm Ade from the English Midlands. Finding it increasingly difficult and tiresome to relate to the neurotypicals around here so thought I'd see how other oddballs like me interact with each other!

Welcome to this forum.

I've always sought out fellow oddballs of one kind or another, long before I realized that I might fit into a category now known as "ASD."

Have you looked for any in-person support groups in your area for adults on the autism spectrum?


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28 Feb 2020, 5:01 pm

I've only been diagnosed in the last year so I've spent most of my life developing strategies to fit into the regular world. While I agree with the diagnosis and it's made sense of a lot of the difficulties I've faced I guess I still don't really identify with being on the spectrum. I really struggle to maintain meaningful friendships and I'm constantly disappointed in people.
I'm high functioning and groups in my area aren't really set up for that.



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28 Feb 2020, 5:40 pm

Hi Ade and welcome :)! Good to have you with us. I moved over to the UK from Australia and love it here. Hope life’s treating you well, though sorry to hear that people seem to always be disappointing you. WP’s a good place to find like-minded people.



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28 Feb 2020, 6:59 pm

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28 Feb 2020, 7:23 pm

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28 Feb 2020, 9:41 pm

Welcome, Ade.


I enjoy the work of an artist who was named Ade Bethune.

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29 Feb 2020, 9:37 pm

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29 Feb 2020, 10:54 pm

Normal is a setting on a dryer.

And Nic gets extra points for one of the better scenes from The Craft.

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