Hello everyone I just joined today as I need your help/support and perhaps some laughs/friendships along the way. I am a NT but very left handed woman of 36 years. I meet an Auspie guy this July. We have a very intense but odd relationship together. He is as sincere as he can be but I think sometimes his fantasy/reality blends together. He and I totally relate on somethings ( he said he only dates lefties it is weird the little things I can identify with). IT can be very frusrating though as I think things are well then he goes out on a limb, I have gotten used to a lot and have seen at least one complete meltdown and heard a few more but I never know what to expect, how to react or what is real. What I guess I am asking from you, the experts is that once you have a friend (and yes it has become physical) that you trust, is there a way to know what is reality and what are tangents? I sometimes think that he grows close then does not know how to deal so he stresse which triggers one of his tangents. Any simple guidelines?
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22 Oct 2007, 6:52 pm
