ascan wrote:
MrMark wrote:
... Argument implies a desire to win. I only need to state my position.
That sounds like "I'm a mod, I can do what I want, and to hell with everyone else". It smacks of arrogance. Argument is an essential part of getting to a position where all parties agree, and can then move forward from common ground. Why not just discuss the very reasonable points put to you, instead of appearing to treat us all with contempt?
Note that I'm not personally attacking you, if you feel like playing that card. I'm just pointing out how you come across.
I don't feel you're attacking me at all.
I realize that I come off as arrogant online. I guess everybody gets cut slack for being autistic except me.
"I'm a mod, I can do what I want, and to hell with everyone else".
It's true I'm a mod. It's not true that I can do whatever I want. I certainly don't think, "to hell with everyone else." When I say I only need to state my position, I mean I have no need to convince anyone that I'm right or they're wrong. I'm okay if people don't agree with me. I have my opinion, other people have their's, and that's okay. I personally think that truth is a pretty illusory and elusive thing. I think that most of what most people hold as truth is actually opinion. I realize that many people will not share this point of view. I imagine they will make some very good arguments to the contrary. I'll probably still believe what I believe. I'll definitely still be okay.
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