Aspie Men's forum. (Poll)

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wefunction , I bet that if men contributed in voting for a women's forum removal decision and took the majority of votes , you would go berserk saying how sexist this contribution was and how unfair it was. So please , stop dramatizing and creating theories of "this how women will be treated in men's forum"

Btw, there was a female member who suggested exclusive women threads in case if it was requested by the thread starter there "women-only threads" where men's posts should be deleted , and most female repliers supported the idea. How sexist was that idea? eh?



Fine , for the sake to avoid the victim game, both genders can vote for this. No excuse for dramatizing now.

Emlion your voice will be counted.

What about you wefunction , are you With or Against? (yet I am sure you were against since the beginning).




Just to clarify things:

The reasons why I want a men's forum are posted in the OP, they are purely men-related stuff, there shouldn't any misogyny (or even anywhere) because the forum would be for men's issues ONLY , and not men's issues with women (that would be the L&D.)



So:

1- Men's forum is not a haven or an excuse for misogyny , misogynists and misogyny are to be monitored and to be fought by mods.
2- Men's forum is where men can discuss subjects related to men , manhood and male issues and men stuff (OP).
3- No relationship subjects in Men's forum (those will be moved to L&D).
4- NO , the L&D is not Men's forum!! !! not all men's issues can be discussed there , and it's a forum for everyone. It's not the men's fault if the majority of members there are males.

^^ Do you have a problem with a such forum , wefuction? If yes, WHY?





Wefuction , the thread is in a dead section , the WP.net is the least visited section here, don't make conclusions so quickly , many guys posted threads asking for men's forum before.

Maybe naive was the wrong word. Oblivious to right and wrongs?

I think us men deserve a "pint of ice cream" for the double standards we have to put up with

And oh , btw wefuction, this how I respond to anyone that I disagree with regardless of his/her gender, I do not change my tone according to the gender of the person I am debating with.

So please, stop flashing "aahhhh so you're misogynist!!" accusation every time, this is a serious accusation and it's very offensive to anyone who isn't.

It' like I am telling you "Ahhhh so you are anti-mideast racist!!" just because I didn't like the way you talked to me or something like that.

Honestly, I don't care one way or the other if there's a Man Cave of sorts. What makes me roll my eyes is that (1) you can't help yourself from using derogatory language in attempt to reframe what I say as some raving, irrational angry rant, as opposed to a reasonable objection to what you've set up for debate; and (2) you and MCalavera don't acknowledge the reason why there is a Women's Discussion section. This is really no more ridiculous than white people complaining about Black Entertainment Television on cable tv in the US.

So, hey, once you get your act together to behave in a way that's a little more respectful, rational and logical, I might consider your request as something more than a disrespectful, irrational and illogical plea rooted deeply in privilege. For as long as you continue to claim we're playing a victim game and that we're somehow berserk, the less I'm going to care about your penis populated virtual utopia.

Because women have their issues as much as men have their issues, I am not denying this.





Again ...the drama.....

I tried my best with you wefunction,, you seem already made up your mind about me since ever "You are disrespectful" , "you are misogynist". Fine , kudos to your false judgments.

Seriously ,since you don't care whether there's a men's forum or not then kindly leave us alone.



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*nods*
That's how you see us , penis on legs. How offensive, I would report this to the mods.

As usual, what M**g said...

With.

Aspie male here. I am persuaded by the inclusion of issues around bullying and male social roles.

Boo, good on you.

wefunction, thanks for sharing with us your opinion. And to Grisha and visagrunt and all the others who have posted thus far.

That's obviously not what I said, as one can simply read in the quoted text, but you're more than welcome to report my conduct to the moderators for their evaluation. As always, I accept their decisions and adjust my behavior accordingly. Once you stop treating me like an inferior because I disagree with you, I'll be able to speak my peace and leave it be. However, when you respond to my opinion with claims that I'm being irrational and going berserk, then command me to leave the thread because I do not agree with you, I'm going to push the issue because it annoys me. I've already said this and I believe the Cause and Effect of your choices are perfectly clear here.



You're only partially right. When you get the rest, come back.

with

Cave of Men topic

Oooga! (With!)

I have not posted much anywhere else for some time except PPR, Gen Aut, News and Net, as i find some of the drama too emotional. The random forum is just posting. The LGBT is fairly good, for info on the community. I find the women's section too emo, but this does not mean I would post in a men's section. but, hey, build it, and they will come. PPR is mostly guys, and I like the intellectual insights (no I am not kidding).

those who are obviously with or said "With" :

The_Face_of_Boo
wavefreak58
emlion
Simonono
MCalavera
nick007
visagrunt
Janissy
sartresue


(If I mistakenly counted someone as "with" or missed counting a vote, please tell me to adjust it)

Total: 9 votes "With" so far.



Those who are Against:

gbollard

1 vote "Against" so far.




Moog and Grisha's opinions can't be clearly defined as "With" or "against".

Regardless of the amount of effort that it may takes, what is your final word about this? are you "With" or "against" ?
You don't have to vote if you don't want to.


And same for wefuction who didn't give a clear final answer despite all the posts: with or against? It's that simple, really.

So what do you envision happens when you have a final tally?

^^ everything starts with a vision and outspoken words, have a little faith about this. It's making wonders already in the middle east.

Aspie Club for Men(and other contributers) topic

I say give it a go. If it does not work, then it can be erased.