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04 Aug 2020, 11:41 am

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... Honestly I wonder if some people are really incapable of getting things.
To take the idea even further: I wonder if everyone is incapable of understanding something...

ME: Bats aren't birds.

HE: But they's gots wings, eats bugs, and fly! They's birds, man! They's birds!!

ME: :wall:
... Please tell me this is not a conversation that actually took place.
I wish I could.  The man was looking for bats' nests ... to steal their eggs ... to hatch them and train the fledgling bats to hunt ...

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My Dad would go up to talk to anyone. He was tallented like that. At a local beach he saw an elderly lady looking for something, so he asked "What are you looking for?"
"Cockles" she replied.
My dad said they are under the sand, and he walked to an area that had the tell tale signs, and with his walking stick he dug one up.
She said "That's not a cockle. That's a shell".
My Dad explained to her there was a cockle inside it and if you boiled them in a saucepan, when the creature dies, it will open its shell and you can eat it.
She was having none of that and the usual thing was said "I have lived in London for "X" years (Could not recall the number of years her age was but she was past retirement age)" (You know the story of how people don't like being wrong and try to make themselves seem knowledgeable and important).
My Dad said something like "You have lived in this country for all those years and expected to see ready cooked cockles sitting on the sand?"

It makes one wonder how someone can live for so long and not know basic things. At least she found the right beach, we shall give her that! :D


Reminds me when my ex thought avocados were not fruit. He thought they were a guacamole. Technically you do make guacamole from avocados. So he was right about that there when he said it was a guacamole. But they are a fruit. You use that fruit to make the dip.

My ex would argue over stupid s**t when he can just get on his damn computer and look it up so he wouldn't look stupid. I was the one to look it up to show him a page that said they are a fruit because he wouldn't drop it.

Plus I hate people who pretend they know everything without getting that information. They just pulled it out of their ass. I would be fine if they just said it was their opinion or their speculation but them treating it like a fact is what gets me. Both my ex's did it.


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04 Aug 2020, 2:21 pm

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If you google 'white supremacy', the definition is as follows:
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I wont make any claims to the character of other members, but funeralxempires definition is valid interpretation. It is an expansion of the phrase 'dominate society'.


funeralxempires wrote "If someone consistently puts the interests and concerns of white people ahead of those of other people is it unfair to refer to that person as a white supremacist when they meet the definition?"

Those are different definitions. funeralxempires definition has nothing to do with the interpretation that one race is better or superior to another race.

The definition of prejudice is "an unfair feeling of dislike for a person or group because of race, sex, religion, etc. : a feeling of like or dislike for someone or something especially when it is not reasonable or logical." He has redefined prejudiced into white supremacists.

If funeralxempires refers to another member as a white supremacist then he applying a derogatory term against another member.


You seem to be under the impression that one can only be a white supremacist if they preach some sort of 'master race' nonsense and basing all of your conclusions on that overly strict definition.

When you state that Jimmy is basing his conclusion on some sort of master race 'nonsense' ~ it is an interesting statement given that you previously stated:

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Should we not refer to a poster who consistently puts the interests and concerns of white people ahead of others, or who consistently denigrates or is hostile to the interests and concerns of PoC by the term used to describe such people?
I thought we were supposed to be in favour of speaking the truth plainly.

Yet you have not plainly stated what makes sense to you.

You seem to be referring to the master race 'nonsense' as being in the master and servant sense such as involving slavery, rather than in the sense of a master who is considered before others on account of sex, age and experience ~ as in terms of being more in control of themselves, hence the derogation on account that some believe that light skinned cultures are more civilised or advanced than dark skinned cultures and vice-versa ~ because of not linguistically understanding or behaviourally appreciating each other's historical traditions or developmental innovations.

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Sorry Jimmy, but imma keep calling a spade a spade. You can gnash your teeth over it all you like but you don't get to silence me on this matter.

Stick as you state to calling a 'spade a spade' (i.e., as being here reading what is written) rather than imagining the intentions of the digger (you) and undermining yourself by way of entrenching others in your fantasised interactions (teeth gnashing and silencing you). The [psychological] map is not as such the [physiological] territory! The only thing stopping your freedom of speech is your failure to abide by it in terms of respecting other peoples sense and sensibilities ~ recalling or considering anew that the freedom of speech is like having a driving license and abiding by the highway code ~ so drop the imagined wrong doings of yourself in other's positions, and pick up on the subject matter of the discussion itself (as being to make the future of Wrong Planet better) instead, and no longer break the following rule:

2. Personal attacks.
This includes insinuation, ridicule and personal insults, regardless of whether direct or indirect. Attacking an opinion, belief or philosophy is acceptable, but attacking the person making the comments is not.


Your compliance is very much appreciated as it is universally required. Thankyou everyone. :D


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04 Aug 2020, 2:30 pm

Can someone explain to me, what are you so angry about? I gather, it's something from other threads?


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04 Aug 2020, 2:31 pm

I have seen some rules and I think "How is it possible to remain on this site without breaking at least one of them?" I don't try to, but it depends how strict they are applied. I read the last bit in blue. Direct or not etc. (How does one know if one has indirectly broken rules by saying something that means one thing to me but something completely different to someone else?)
I tend to fear breaking rules and I have left sites or other things which to me seem difficult to keep as the wording may be seen by some to be words that mean a more general meaning, but to me they mean exactly what they say.


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04 Aug 2020, 2:37 pm

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Can someone explain to me, what are you so angry about? I gather, it's something from other threads?


I gather it's about the BLM movement and peoples perceptions of the movement.



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04 Aug 2020, 2:39 pm

Deepthought 7 wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
jimmy m wrote:
Feyokien wrote:
If you google 'white supremacy', the definition is as follows:
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I wont make any claims to the character of other members, but funeralxempires definition is valid interpretation. It is an expansion of the phrase 'dominate society'.


funeralxempires wrote "If someone consistently puts the interests and concerns of white people ahead of those of other people is it unfair to refer to that person as a white supremacist when they meet the definition?"

Those are different definitions. funeralxempires definition has nothing to do with the interpretation that one race is better or superior to another race.

The definition of prejudice is "an unfair feeling of dislike for a person or group because of race, sex, religion, etc. : a feeling of like or dislike for someone or something especially when it is not reasonable or logical." He has redefined prejudiced into white supremacists.

If funeralxempires refers to another member as a white supremacist then he applying a derogatory term against another member.


You seem to be under the impression that one can only be a white supremacist if they preach some sort of 'master race' nonsense and basing all of your conclusions on that overly strict definition.

When you state that Jimmy is basing his conclusion on some sort of master race 'nonsense' ~ it is an interesting statement given that you previously stated:

funeralxempire wrote:
Should we not refer to a poster who consistently puts the interests and concerns of white people ahead of others, or who consistently denigrates or is hostile to the interests and concerns of PoC by the term used to describe such people?
I thought we were supposed to be in favour of speaking the truth plainly.

Yet you have not plainly stated what makes sense to you.

You seem to be referring to the master race 'nonsense' as being in the master and servant sense such as involving slavery, rather than in the sense of a master who is considered before others on account of sex, age and experience ~ as in terms of being more in control of themselves, hence the derogation on account that some believe that light skinned cultures are more civilised or advanced than dark skinned cultures and vice-versa ~ because of not linguistically understanding or behaviourally appreciating each other's historical traditions or developmental innovations.

[quote="funeralxempire.

Stick as you state to calling a 'spade a spade' (i.e., as being here reading what is written) rather than imagining the intentions of the digger (you) and undermining yourself by way of entrenching others in your fantasised interactions (teeth gnashing and silencing you). The [psychological] map is not as such the [physiological] territory! The only thing stopping your freedom of speech is your failure to abide by it in terms of respecting other peoples sense and sensibilities ~ recalling or considering anew that the freedom of speech is like having a driving license and abiding by the highway code ~ so drop the imagined wrong doings of yourself in other's positions, and pick up on the subject matter of the discussion itself (as being to make the future of Wrong Planet better) instead, and no longer break the following rule:

2. Personal attacks.
This includes insinuation, ridicule and personal insults, regardless of whether direct or indirect. Attacking an opinion, belief or philosophy is acceptable, but attacking the person making the comments is not.


Your compliance is very much appreciated as it is universally required. Thankyou everyone. :D[/quote]

If calling out racism is a bannable offence I will have to accept that outcome. Until then, I'll keep calling it as I see it. . Feel free to report me as much as you feel the need to.


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04 Aug 2020, 2:43 pm

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Just read books about it like White Fragility by Robin DiAngelo
or, y'know, something by someone who doesn't rely on pseudo-intellectual waffling and unfalsfiable claims (sprinkled with a nice healthy dose of her own racism) to sell her snake oil.
According to Robin DiAngelo, if you are a white person in America, you are a racist, pure and simple; and without a lifetime of conscious effort you always will be, and you can't help it because of "White Privilege".
When people say all white people are racist, I am sure they mean racial color blindness.
When people say that all white people are racist, I assume they mean that all white people are racist, which is a racist statement in itself.


The statement all white people are racist doesn't perpetuate any institutional power imbalances based on race. Benefiting from white privilege your entire life while remaining blissfully unaware or even hostile to acknowledging it on the other hand does.

By my own standards I'm racist, I've been worse and I can only really attempt to consistently improve. Same except for I've been worse the same is true of the rest of you. I'm not insulting myself or anyone else when I state this basic truth.


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04 Aug 2020, 2:44 pm

i was about to post that you were currently being miserable doing 10 hour shifts so wouldnt respond


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04 Aug 2020, 2:46 pm

Mountain Goat wrote:
I have seen some rules and I think "How is it possible to remain on this site without breaking at least one of them?" I don't try to, but it depends how strict they are applied. I read the last bit in blue. Direct or not etc. (How does one know if one has indirectly broken rules by saying something that means one thing to me but something completely different to someone else?)
I tend to fear breaking rules and I have left sites or other things which to me seem difficult to keep as the wording may be seen by some to be words that mean a more general meaning, but to me they mean exactly what they say.



From my experience being on sites with rules so strict, those forums do not last. They become dead or have little activity.


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04 Aug 2020, 2:47 pm

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Can someone explain to me, what are you so angry about? I gather, it's something from other threads?

I gather it's about the BLM movement and peoples perceptions of the movement.

Thanks. Last time I checked, Sly was fearing chaos and lawlessness while League_Girl was defending people's right to protest whenever they felt like protesting (an attitude present in my culture, too). Funeralxempire is generally sensitive to anything even slightly resembling white supremacism.
Am I up to date?


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04 Aug 2020, 2:51 pm

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i was about to post that you were currently being miserable doing 10 hour shifts so wouldnt respond


I'm still miserable although apparently we're too low on engines to run O/T anywhere except engine plant, so I only get to whine about 9 hour shifts until Monday. I also get to have tomorrow off because I had a meltdown and since my boss is an older guy who's likely on spectrum but undiagnosed he was empathetic enough to put that through as vacation day instead of a sick day.


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04 Aug 2020, 2:51 pm

^^ Yes.


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04 Aug 2020, 2:56 pm

Mountain Goat wrote:
I have seen some rules and I think "How is it possible to remain on this site without breaking at least one of them?" I don't try to, but it depends how strict they are applied. I read the last bit in blue. Direct or not etc. (How does one know if one has indirectly broken rules by saying something that means one thing to me but something completely different to someone else?)
I tend to fear breaking rules and I have left sites or other things which to me seem difficult to keep as the wording may be seen by some to be words that mean a more general meaning, but to me they mean exactly what they say.


What we have is someone knownly directly violating the rules and saying I don’t care if they ban me for it.

You’d rather have no rules? I’m currently leaning to thst. Currently the rules are only enforced on non left leaning people. Atleast if there’s no rules I could fight back.

I can’t even be left alone being mute in a single thread on the forum. No that’s not enough. This is the single most worse forum on the internet

Whenever I show people wp they all say “wow that’s a horrible site why do you go there. Sure doesn’t look like a support site.”


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04 Aug 2020, 2:59 pm

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What we have is someone knownly directly violating the rules and saying I don’t care if they ban me for it.


that about sums it for me


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04 Aug 2020, 3:01 pm

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i was about to post that you were currently being miserable doing 10 hour shifts so wouldnt respond


I'm still miserable although apparently we're too low on engines to run O/T anywhere except engine plant, so I only get to whine about 9 hour shifts until Monday. I also get to have tomorrow off because I had a meltdown and since my boss is an older guy who's likely on spectrum but undiagnosed he was empathetic enough to put that through as vacation day instead of a sick day.


cool boss


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04 Aug 2020, 3:05 pm

sly279 wrote:
Mountain Goat wrote:
I have seen some rules and I think "How is it possible to remain on this site without breaking at least one of them?" I don't try to, but it depends how strict they are applied. I read the last bit in blue. Direct or not etc. (How does one know if one has indirectly broken rules by saying something that means one thing to me but something completely different to someone else?)
I tend to fear breaking rules and I have left sites or other things which to me seem difficult to keep as the wording may be seen by some to be words that mean a more general meaning, but to me they mean exactly what they say.


What we have is someone knownly directly violating the rules and saying I don’t care if they ban me for it.

You’d rather have no rules? I’m currently leaning to thst. Currently the rules are only enforced on non left leaning people. Atleast if there’s no rules I could fight back.

I can’t even be left alone being mute in a single thread on the forum. No that’s not enough. This is the single most worse forum on the internet

Whenever I show people wp they all say “wow that’s a horrible site why do you go there. Sure doesn’t look like a support site.”
How are you not left alone? What do you need?


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