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03 Jan 2008, 11:14 pm

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I guess I don't see what is hard to understand about "don't post here".


I've just re-read the post and realized that I wasn't the first... maybe I took so long editing my post that others got in ... dunno... anyway - I didn't see the post about not being allowed to post until after I'd posted.... :)

So... to sum up.

I clicked an RSS Entry and went straight to a post, read a message, briefly looked at the existing responses and hit reply. I wouldn't have expected to be able to read (let alone post) in the ultra-secret-private women's forum - I'm used to systems preventing me.

So yes... I think you can't be too hard on the men. We tried to offer advice, not criticism, so it looks very accidental.



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03 Jan 2008, 11:16 pm

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I guess I don't see what is hard to understand about "don't post here".


'tisn't hard at all to understand the request itself. What's harder to understand (especially for many aspies) is whether or not the request is legitimate or fair and whether one should comply. Now that this issue has had its time in the spotlight and the expectations are clearer, I think people will be more careful in the future.

Plus, I now know how to respond.


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04 Jan 2008, 12:26 am

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Why is that so hard to understand? When Fiona first complained, why would the offenders keep complaining and keep posting???? To see your name in print?


of course not... we want to get our posts up so we can change the description :)

I posted the first response before she said Women only (so I have an excuse). The others probably didn't read her response to mine.

That's understandable because one thread I remember asked people if they read everything and a lot of people said they read the first one only then hit reply.


then there are those of us who posted that are probably being accused of being male based on the fact that we registered what are gender identity is, rather than what our physical gender is.



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04 Jan 2008, 1:20 am

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then there are those of us who posted that are probably being accused of being male based on the fact that we registered what are gender identity is, rather than what our physical gender is.


I'm not touching that one. :)



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04 Jan 2008, 1:40 am

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I'm also referring to the attitudes in this thread about burqas

And what 'attitude' might that be? :roll:

Just because ya'll don't understand the reference to the burqua doesn't mean it's not relevant. Or is that such a PC, hot-button issue that you feel obliged to take umbrage?

The Islamic tradition of hadith concerning jilbab comes directly from the Qur'an, and describes the wearing of the burqua as a means of protection of women from the foul, lecherous, prying eyes of men:
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"Enjoin your wives, your daughters, and the wives of true believers to draw their jilbab over them [when they go out]. That is more proper, so that they may be distinguished and not be harassed. "

This assumes of course that all men are dogs, and incapable of controlling their actions. It also assumes all women are wilting flowers who somehow need protection. The reason I posted pictures of burquas is because OP (and other 'wilting flowers'...) apparently see themselves as being somehow threatened by the mere presence of men in 'their' thread (not to mention the long streak of "control freak" evinced in certain posts, and the bizarre underlying assumption that XYs "shouldn't" even read XX's corner of the internet...).

"Get thee to a nunnery". :lol:



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04 Jan 2008, 11:43 am

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then there are those of us who posted that are probably being accused of being male based on the fact that we registered what are gender identity is, rather than what our physical gender is.

All the more reason that it doesn't make sense to make that area explicitly "women only," especially if it were based upon what is listed in one's profile.



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04 Jan 2008, 12:01 pm

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assumption that XYs "shouldn't" even read XX's corner of the internet...).

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(That picture was probably far too obscure for most to know where it is coming from. :? )



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04 Jan 2008, 1:18 pm

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I hvae said I don't want men replying to my post but they are still doing so.


Members can't control who is allowed to respond to their posts.


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04 Jan 2008, 1:50 pm

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then there are those of us who posted that are probably being accused of being male based on the fact that we registered what are gender identity is, rather than what our physical gender is.


I'm not touching that one. :)


Good, because if you called me a woman I'd have to beat you up. But that doesn't change the fact that i am one :?



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04 Jan 2008, 5:04 pm

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(That picture was probably far too obscure for most to know where it is coming from. Confused )


What ... you mean the one from Dune?

It's difficult to see what it has to do with anything here but we know what the picture is.

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Good, because if you called me a woman I'd have to beat you up. But that doesn't change the fact that i am one Confused


wow... yikes... did you score high in the anger test thread... :lol:



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04 Jan 2008, 6:23 pm

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It's difficult to see what it has to do with anything here but we know what the picture is.

There was a picture, and then there was text following it.