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07 Jul 2023, 3:46 pm

Yeah it seems to be a bowl of contention this subject. I think we should just drop it and move on.


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07 Jul 2023, 5:33 pm

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...and the thread was doing a fair job of accommodating all sides, in my view.

Being heavily triggered to drink every time I opened a thread made to support alcoholics made me feel SO accommodated. It was so nice. I can see how when you don't have to worry about drinking yourself to death, and can just happily prattle on about whatever new beer you're drinking w/o actually having a passing thought about how it'll affect other users you'll feel super accommodated though!



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07 Jul 2023, 5:37 pm

babybird wrote:
Yeah it seems to be a bowl of contention this subject. I think we should just drop it and move on.

I would love it if people would stop trying to downplay how lowkey f****d up that thread was + the resulting hostile response to me expressing discomfort about it. People on here can't do that though and are going to just keep justifying whatever they want because it wasn't that bad for them, even with the admin here clarifying that it was in fact heavily inappropriate to masquerade as what it was and didn't deserve to continue as an "addiction support" thread.



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07 Jul 2023, 5:57 pm

The thread has gone now.


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07 Jul 2023, 6:12 pm

babybird wrote:
The thread has gone now.


Which thread?


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07 Jul 2023, 9:03 pm

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Late with this but I believe cyberdad was hacked. He is not 21 and female.
An equally late response - cyberdad responded to say that it was a leaving joke. He's since corrected his profile.

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07 Jul 2023, 9:13 pm

 This Thread  seems to have gone way off its stated topic, especially the last couple of pages.



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08 Jul 2023, 5:39 am

:lol: I see what you did there...

But it's a good point - this is not a discussion thread.
If you want to keep the alcohol thread -related discussion going please start a new thread about it.


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09 Jul 2023, 9:26 pm

This person may need to be talked out of suicide, if it isn't too late already. Not something I'm particularly good at doing.


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09 Jul 2023, 9:34 pm

Add me to the list. ^


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10 Jul 2023, 4:04 am

There's really nothing can be done beyond what our membership does so well - hold their hand, talk to them.
WP has no trained counsellors.


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11 Jul 2023, 6:47 am

Getting a fraud warning from Malwarebytes on this page: viewtopic.php?f=24&t=136842&start=31552

says 'igg games is blocked'


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11 Jul 2023, 8:11 am

Thanks - I'll post a note to the thread.


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12 Jul 2023, 3:19 pm

Is this a problem: https://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=415118#p9329460


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12 Jul 2023, 3:36 pm

That was a spammer, now removed.


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12 Jul 2023, 7:42 pm

After creating this thread, I came across this thread. Perhaps the two should be merged?


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