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17 Mar 2007, 8:46 pm

alex wrote:

that was one of the shortest second chances anyone has ever gotten. it's a shame he blew it though, i would have liked him to have stayed but some people say they change with out actually changing.

Out of curiosity, what did he do this time? Was it the thing in the Haven? No need to answer if I am being too curious.

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17 Mar 2007, 8:46 pm

alex wrote:

that was one of the shortest second chances anyone has ever gotten. it's a shame he blew it though, i would have liked him to have stayed but some people say they change with out actually changing.

Why'd he go this time?

EDIT: I can imagine shorter second chances

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17 Mar 2007, 8:47 pm

KBABZ wrote:

alex wrote:

that was one of the shortest second chances anyone has ever gotten. it's a shame he blew it though, i would have liked him to have stayed but some people say they change with out actually changing.

Why'd he go this time?

I'm wondering the same thing.

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17 Mar 2007, 8:48 pm

God, sometimes I hate wanting to know everything :lol: I can never curb my curiosity

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17 Mar 2007, 8:49 pm

janicka wrote:

KBABZ wrote:

alex wrote:

that was one of the shortest second chances anyone has ever gotten. it's a shame he blew it though, i would have liked him to have stayed but some people say they change with out actually changing.

Why'd he go this time?

I'm wondering the same thing.

This seems to be a problem. People are "taken care of," and that fact is made to be very prominent, but the reasoning behind it is left out.

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17 Mar 2007, 8:49 pm

KBABZ wrote:

alex wrote:

that was one of the shortest second chances anyone has ever gotten. it's a shame he blew it though, i would have liked him to have stayed but some people say they change with out actually changing.

Why'd he go this time?

EDIT: I can imagine shorter second chances

A bit like:

"Oldusernewaccount": Hello.
"Admin": Goodbye.

*BAN*

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17 Mar 2007, 8:51 pm

shadexiii wrote:

janicka wrote:

KBABZ wrote:

alex wrote:

that was one of the shortest second chances anyone has ever gotten. it's a shame he blew it though, i would have liked him to have stayed but some people say they change with out actually changing.

Why'd he go this time?

I'm wondering the same thing.

This seems to be a problem. People are "taken care of," and that fact is made to be very prominent, but the reasoning behind it is left out.

I'd say it was possibly something to do with PMs, since I didn't notice anything with his recent posts...

But I would like to hear reasoning behind this ban.

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17 Mar 2007, 8:52 pm

Quatermass wrote:

KBABZ wrote:

alex wrote:

that was one of the shortest second chances anyone has ever gotten. it's a shame he blew it though, i would have liked him to have stayed but some people say they change with out actually changing.

Why'd he go this time?

EDIT: I can imagine shorter second chances

A bit like:

"Oldusernewaccount": Hello.
"Admin": Goodbye.

*BAN*

I dunno, tough one. I banned a few on my site as I at times became too tired to deal with them... one started posting nasty stuff in my shoutbox. But my rule really was that they got 3 pm warnings and then banned. That way, no-one could say they didn't get a fair chance.

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17 Mar 2007, 8:54 pm

And alex, if you want to know why we want to hear the reasoning behind the banning of new_guy_64, think of it as instruction, so we may learn by his mistakes.

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17 Mar 2007, 8:56 pm

Quatermass wrote:

I'd say it was possibly something to do with PMs, since I didn't notice anything with his recent posts...

But I would like to hear reasoning behind this ban.

I'm wondering if this had something to do with it...

http://www.wrongplanet.net/modules.php? ... ic&t=27695

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17 Mar 2007, 8:58 pm

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And alex, if you want to know why we want to hear the reasoning behind the banning of new_guy_64, think of it as instruction, so we may learn by his mistakes.

Yes, in truth, I am always on edge with anything I post as I am so fearful of this happening to me. I think this site can become a support system for many of its users, including me...and take that away, you end up with a very major meltdown, I can tell you, lol. I avoid cussing because of this fear, even though I see others cussing and staying around. With a warning you would know and be able to rectify your behaviours.

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17 Mar 2007, 8:58 pm

Quatermass wrote:

And alex, if you want to know why we want to hear the reasoning behind the banning of new_guy_64, think of it as instruction, so we may learn by his mistakes.

In addition to that, I'd like to know if someone could hypothetically be banned for abuse via PM's. Not that I have a problem with anyone - just that Quartermass brought up an interesting point that I had never thought about.

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17 Mar 2007, 9:00 pm

janicka wrote:

Quatermass wrote:

And alex, if you want to know why we want to hear the reasoning behind the banning of new_guy_64, think of it as instruction, so we may learn by his mistakes.

I think most forums have a pretty strict policy on pm abuse...that is no better than abuse on the public forum and is one reason pms are often logged on boards else there would be no proof.

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17 Mar 2007, 9:01 pm

As it seems to happen often nowadays on WP, maybe there should be a "Banned users and why so" thread around here? So that we could know why?

EDIT: Of course there is the problem of having the banned be unable to correct anything.

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17 Mar 2007, 9:01 pm

janicka wrote:

I'm wondering if this had something to do with it...

http://www.wrongplanet.net/modules.php? ... ic&t=27695

That was my guess as well. He did apologize, but an apology doesn't suddenly make things "ok." Still, all we can do is guess at the reason(s) at this point.

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17 Mar 2007, 9:02 pm

I'd like to know what he did that was so bad in the first place.

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