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18 Aug 2020, 9:43 am

Noted and applauded, with slight correction: there should be an "and" before "cookie", The oxford comma is the belt and suspenders of punctuation.

And agreed.


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18 Aug 2020, 9:58 am

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Noted and applauded, with slight correction: there should be an "and" before "cookie", The oxford comma is the belt and suspenders of punctuation.

And agreed.


The comma is very important, I would agree...

As does Fred, who is outside helping his father, Jack, off the horse.



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18 Aug 2020, 10:02 am

That joke is supposed to be about capitalization.


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18 Aug 2020, 10:38 am

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When you see such personal attacks of any kind, please send a PM to a mod with the link. We aren't omniscient or omnipresent. :lol:


I'd like advice on what to do after this step. I reported several instances of personal attacks and insults against other members across the forum but most notably in The Haven. I reported all of these incidents to the mod team by PM and also using the "report" button. With each report I included a clear quote of the offence as well as a copy of the rule which had been broken, and the harm that had been done to certain members' reputations / mental health.

I was thanked for the PM but have yet to see the posts edited or removed. As far as I know, the people who wrote the posts did not issue apologies. Regarding the "report button" submissions which took me over an hour to prepare and document, all I received were emails to confirm the cases were closed. No follow up. Again, I can still read the offensive posts which have not been edited or removed. I do not see apologies. I did not receive any personal communication from the mod who closed those reports, although it's been a few weeks.

My next step would be to report the problems a third time, using the Mod Attention thread and / or messaging Alex directly.
I haven't done this because I don't want to draw additional attention to the posts via the Mod Attention thread, which is public. I would use that as a last resort as I prefer to keep issues private.

What should a member do when they see obvious rule breaks, they have followed your advice, sent PM to mods, and used the report button, all with documentary evidence, and yet the issues are not resolved?


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18 Aug 2020, 11:05 am

Wolfram87 wrote:
Noted and applauded, with slight correction: there should be an "and" before "cookie", The oxford comma is the belt and suspenders of punctuation.

And agreed.

.Wouldn't adding "and" make the Oxford Comma redundant? Good job I teach mainly English conversation, my punctuation is, as we say in my geographical location, in my posterior.


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18 Aug 2020, 11:06 am

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For self moderation: Everyone needs to familiarize themselves with the rules, especially veterans, any thoughts?
I just went to check the rules to see if ad hominems are allowed but couldn't find them.
There is no rule against the use of fallacies of reason, spurious logic, or false data.

:( Unfortunately.



I see nothing in the rules about telling members they are doing this or that and tossing accusations at them about their actions rather they are true or not.


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18 Aug 2020, 11:16 am

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Regarding the "dangers" of enforcing the rules: I certainly wasn't suggesting a dogmatic approach. What I meant is that we (or the mods) should be careful with cherry-picking who we make allowances for and who gets treated more harshly or taking a personal or ideological dislike to someone and either participate in or turn a blind eye when they're being bullied or insulted.

I also don't agree that autistic people can't understand and follow the rules, since it's not a problem on other autistic forums, especially when they get some guidance and assistance from the mods.

I don't see any rule against asking "stupid" questions and I don't agree with harassing people based on suspicion, particularly new members. With the former moderation team, I was encouraged by one of them to report suspicions privately since he had the means to make further investigations or at least to keep an eye on the person until he could make up his mind. As Isabella said, someone who has experience with that kind of stuff would be a great addition, as it happened quite frequently in the past for members to make public accusations of sock-puppetry or trolling and be wrong about it, while actual offenders managed to fly under the radar.

And I'm still a big fan of self-moderating and I agree with the post Isabella made a couple of pages ago (sorry, can't quote). People should stay out of the Haven if they don't have anything nice to say, as for the rest of the forum, people who can't stand each other or are incapable of engaging in a civil exchange (happens to all of us), should learn to stay away from each other instead of having the same fights over and over again. Leaving aside that cookie-cutter advice is generally bad as we often can't fully understand others' personal circumstances, this is also a pragmatical POV: no matter how valid your advice might be, nobody will ever change their ways or views because someone on the internet is pestering them or downright accuses them of being lazy, "wrong" or much worse. I also dislike seeing people leave or get banned because aggressive or argumentative members are allowed to follow them around or even bait them until they lose their cool. And while some do that kind of stuff because they seemingly can't help themselves, IMO others have been taking advantage of the situation to get rid of those they dislike or disagree with.

These last couple of weeks I've been irritable as hell due to the heatwave so I just stopped posting as I knew I can't fully trust myself to not take it out on some poor bugger. There are a couple of people here whom I never, ever engage since I know from experience it doesn't go well. Others, even if they obviously can't stand me will respond in a civilised manner and that's also fine: not everybody will like or agree with you and as far as I'm concerned, that's mostly a plus, not a minus.



Honestly I keep thinking if I shall start a separate thread here about rules that are hidden members have been made aware of so others can see it and not do that same mistake. But yet rules may vary depending on staff team because of interpretation and opinions on what is an personal attack, etc.

I wrote on another forum "a member here has that in their profile so I have them on ignore" and someone (just another user) told me it was a personal attack and another aspie user said "it was not, she was just stating a fact."

Confusing because whatever falls under a violation of a rule is based on opinion. :?

One thing I have learned here is apparently it's a breech of the rules here to say someone's thread title is misleading and to this day I still don't understand what was so insulting about it or how it was an attack when I wasn't even taking a dig at that user. I only stated a fact and started a new thread than turning that user's thread into something else. So saying "the thread title was/is misleading" is breaking a rule here so that is a hidden rule here on this forum.


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18 Aug 2020, 11:33 am

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Wouldn't adding "and" make the Oxford Comma redundant?


Astutely noted, yes it would. Hence why I called it the " belt and suspenders" of punctuation. But Oxford University Press has decided that this is how to English, so everyone wishing to be formal and fancy must emulate it.


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18 Aug 2020, 11:39 am

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I, for one, would love a "how to be endearing"-manual written by Fnord.
I do have a copy of his last book, but I can't remember if it went down well or not so I better not post it.
It was an updated re-write of Machiavelli's "The Prince".


Not that one , it was your Dummies guide to................


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18 Aug 2020, 11:52 am

IsabellaLinton: I've had similar experiences and would be very interested in hearing an answer.

League_Girl: I can relate to what you say too, which is why so many people complained both about the rules being very vague in places, but mostly about the moderation process being completely opaque these days.

When I joined, Tallyman and Cornflake would always answer PMs in a concise and to the point manner, telling me if or how they will handle the problem or at least why they didn't consider the report valid if that was the case. It made little difference to me if I agreed with them or not, it was that kind of clear communication that helped me understand the culture of the forum and how the rules were applied. I was less interested in second-guessing their decisions, as much as in being able to ask them questions and getting a clear answer. And GGPViper had a great stabilising influence in the PPR. I'm sure they had their warts too, but I've never seen any of them being rude, insulting people or getting involved in personal or political feuds and I think that earned them respect and trust from a lot of people here.

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It's up to the new mod team to make the future of WP better.


I truly hope they get a fair chance.


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18 Aug 2020, 12:04 pm

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Regarding the "report button" submissions which took me over an hour to prepare and document, all I received were emails to confirm the cases were closed. No follow up. Again, I can still read the offensive posts which have not been edited or removed.


I can only guess at why this happened.

1. The case was closed in error.
2. The case was closed but action was not taken due to being sidetracked.
3. The case was closed and no action was taken as the moderator who dealt with the case saw no personal attack.


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18 Aug 2020, 12:11 pm

Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Regarding the "report button" submissions which took me over an hour to prepare and document, all I received were emails to confirm the cases were closed. No follow up. Again, I can still read the offensive posts which have not been edited or removed.


I can only guess at why this happened.

1. The case was closed in error.
2. The case was closed but action was not taken due to being sidetracked.
3. The case was closed and no action was taken as the moderator who dealt with the case saw no personal attack.


In the case of 3, I would expect that this decision be explained. Even when I corresponded by PM, and we had a back-and-forth conversation, the problems themselves were not resolved. No discernible action was taken, as far as I'm aware.

None of the reports I submitted or PM'ed were ambiguous. I don't report problems unless they are severe and obvious. Sometimes they are issues I have noticed myself. Sometimes, they are issues my daughter has identified from the younger population in the membership.

The mods made this thread to ask for suggestions about helping the future of WP, and they asked that problems or concerns be reported. I've done this in good faith to provide meaningful input and not to spite any other person. Amity has worked very hard to improve the transparency of moderation decisions, so I was hoping that the mods would be able to explain their rationale for the betterment of Wrong Planet.


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18 Aug 2020, 12:21 pm

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Noted and applauded, with slight correction: there should be an "and" before "cookie", The oxford comma is the belt and suspenders of punctuation.


The "and" would go before "coherent," not "cookie."

This is an interesting thread, but pedantry is my only available contribution right now, sorry!


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18 Aug 2020, 12:32 pm

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Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Regarding the "report button" submissions which took me over an hour to prepare and document, all I received were emails to confirm the cases were closed. No follow up. Again, I can still read the offensive posts which have not been edited or removed.


I can only guess at why this happened.

1. The case was closed in error.
2. The case was closed but action was not taken due to being sidetracked.
3. The case was closed and no action was taken as the moderator who dealt with the case saw no personal attack.


In the case of 3, I would expect that this decision be explained. Even when I corresponded by PM, and we had a back-and-forth conversation, the problems themselves were not resolved. No discernible action was taken, as far as I'm aware.

None of the reports I submitted or PM'ed were ambiguous. I don't report problems unless they are severe and obvious. Sometimes they are issues I have noticed myself. Sometimes, they are issues my daughter has identified from the younger population in the membership.

The mods made this thread to ask for suggestions about helping the future of WP, and they asked that problems or concerns be reported. I've done this in good faith to provide meaningful input and not to spite any other person. Amity has worked very hard to improve the transparency of moderation decisions, so I was hoping that the mods would be able to explain their rationale for the betterment of Wrong Planet.


Due to a moderator shortage I can only guess that a reply to every report would be very time consuming. Hopefully Alex has fixed the moderator tool issue and the new mods can lighten the load. If the current mods are unable to answer your question for whatever reason then the new mods may be of help.


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18 Aug 2020, 12:38 pm

Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:

Due to a moderator shortage I can only guess that a reply to every report would be very time consuming. Hopefully Alex has fixed the moderator tool issue and the new mods can lighten the load. If the current mods are unable to answer your question for whatever reason then the new mods may be of help.


I agree. I wouldn't expect a reply every time or any time -- if clear action was taken.

Perhaps you're right and Options 1 or 2 happened. The reports and PM must have been closed in error.


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18 Aug 2020, 12:43 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
Oh_no_its_Ferris wrote:

Due to a moderator shortage I can only guess that a reply to every report would be very time consuming. Hopefully Alex has fixed the moderator tool issue and the new mods can lighten the load. If the current mods are unable to answer your question for whatever reason then the new mods may be of help.


I agree. I wouldn't expect a reply every time or any time -- if clear action was taken.

Perhaps you're right and Options 1 or 2 happened. The reports and PM must have been closed in error.


I forgot another option - moderators are gits :twisted:

^ insulting moderators is usually a good way to get them to see this thread :jester:


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